I have a hard time letting people into my inner circle. I have 4 best friends, each whom I have been very close to during different times in my life (talking every day, etc) I still feel like I can tell them anything. But I have lost touch with each one of them recently, due to all FOUR of them and myself being so involved in our relationships.
We are all very young... ranging from 19-21... and we are each been so attached to our boyfriends that we hardly make time to see each other anymore.
I just put my 2 year relationship to an end now, and I'm really hurting. My friends are being supportive...talking with me, going out to lunch, shopping with me. But most of them time its brief.
I love my friends, but I want to step out and make some new friends. Just some people to have fun with!
I make friends very quickly and easily, but I don't know how to keep them if it doesn't seem meaningful. I just stop making an effort to stay friends.
I want to change this. What can I do?
How can I find more friends and keep them?
move on
Reply:I too have the similar things as regard friendship. With me , i have their sweet memories. Its rule of lie----one goes, then another comes. But old are always gold. We must try to be in their touch, by any means, mails, telephone etc............
As friendship never dies.....we can never replace old friends, i realise it now! So, though i wanna a new friend in my life, still remember the old. Friendship will come ur way----------keep up with old...!! Time test friendship........having lots of friends with no meaning , like haveing none. so better to have one- who understands u!!
Reply:try and keep in touch with your friends try to you will be so lonely with out friends
Reply:Try joining a few social classes / groups, that way you can meet new people with similar interests. Once you've met a few people that you get on with you can branch out with them and do things outside the group that you met in.
I don't know if you have a job but work colleagues can be great friends as well.
About letting your old friends slip, everyone is guilty of that. I've done it before due to relationships and my friends have always been there after. Just be honest with them, tell them you're sorry for losing touch. They'll be cool with it, trust me!
The biggest bit of advice I can give is that relationships sometimes only last a few years but real friendships last a lifetime. Make the effort, its worth it.
Best of luck :)
Reply:What you need to do honey is go out, play sport anything that's outside your normal world. You could also try working in a customer service job also, Hospitality is a great way to meet people!!! Go do something you enjoy that way you'll meet people who like the same thing.
Remember: Hold your head and smile , people take notice and will want to approach you. Don't be down/negative or grumpy, or no one will want to know you.
Reply:Go for group dates. Or have a girls outing while the guys go out on their own. I don't think the guys would really enjoy going shopping with girls all the time. Treat them like you want others to treat you.
Reply:Set specific days where your close friends all hang-out somewhere in particular. Lets say for example that you come to an agreement with your friends to meet every Monday afternoon at the local Starbucks and just chat it up....You need to improve the quality of your friends..not the quantity.
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Saturday, November 19, 2011
Does my friends really find me attractive?
I'm not being conceited, cocky or anything...i'm just curious what my firends have been comments on me...
One time, I arrived at school and my firend saw me, and he walked up to and said "Imran, sexy guy" and shook my hand. He's not gay thou.
Another time I was walking up to my other friend and he said "Imran, handsome boy. You are a handosme boy'. He's not gay coz he has a gf.
Then another friend of mine, he a bit of metrosexual and he has a gf. He looked at me and said "I can see the handsomeness and beauty inside you" The way he said this he's sound very serious and respectful and he gave me an eye-contact.
So i can't tell if they are joking around or not coz i get same comments from my relative family friends and close friends.
Does my friends really find me attractive?
beauty is confidence not poll love urself others follow
One time, I arrived at school and my firend saw me, and he walked up to and said "Imran, sexy guy" and shook my hand. He's not gay thou.
Another time I was walking up to my other friend and he said "Imran, handsome boy. You are a handosme boy'. He's not gay coz he has a gf.
Then another friend of mine, he a bit of metrosexual and he has a gf. He looked at me and said "I can see the handsomeness and beauty inside you" The way he said this he's sound very serious and respectful and he gave me an eye-contact.
So i can't tell if they are joking around or not coz i get same comments from my relative family friends and close friends.
Does my friends really find me attractive?
beauty is confidence not poll love urself others follow
I have these two friends. Read to find one thing they have done but there is a lot more I can't write.?
Our moms are really close,so we are.They can be mean so not everybody likes them:sometimes I don't.A lot of people call them b- and I don't know if it is bad with me to be with them.I went to a party with them because one of their moms had her birthday.I asked them to come to the bathroom with me or they asked me.I used it last and asked them to wait coz I was scared.Then I went out to wash my hands realizing they left me alone downstairs.I was SO SCARED and I had my hands still soapy when I RAN upstairs and saw my other friend, Liesel.She is really nice but my two friends don't like her.Liesel called them byotches. She explained that they ran upstairs so I could be alone and told everybody that they left me. They know how I'm a scaredy-cat.She called them mean and ran for me. Then my two friends lied that they waited for 2 min. and got tired of waiting. Are they true friends and can I depend on them or friends like Liesel?I have to be nice to them because of our moms.
I have these two friends. Read to find one thing they have done but there is a lot more I can't write.?
You don't have to be "nice" to them simply because your moms are friends. I think if you talked to your mom about it she would understand and be very proud of you that you don't want the same bad reputation that these other girls are getting because they are mean. It's a reputation you don't want and you will eventually be thought of being just like them...guilty by association. Hang with Liesel and people like her. You don't need to be rude to these other girls. Just make other plans to hang out with other girls when the moms are getting together. They obviously have serious self-esteem issues (that's why they are mean to others, makes them feel better about themselves). You don't have a self-esteem issue. Good for you!!!! You're a smart kid!
Reply:Okay, there's one clear thing: they aren't exactly your type. You're dealing with a "Three's a crowd" situation and you obviously don't fit in with them. So their mums know your mum. And then what? I'm not saying that you should stop being nice to them. I'm just saying that you guys can be budies but not exactly best friends...you know, on the "Hello, Hi, What's up" level Find a couple of new [best] friends. Friends you have a lot in common with, people more like Liesel. Leave the other two alone. They seem to be made for each other or something.
Reply:if u feel that there really not true friends then there not...instinct and wat the heart tells us usually happen for a eason especially if u question urself...[make sure u look at the pros and cons]u dont have to end the friendship but if u feel like dat and confronted them and they seem like there lyin go w/ ur instincts..GOOD LUCK
Reply:First of all, they are not true friends, a friend always care for you, and never does anything that you are not comfortable with. Leslie in the other hand, seems like a nice person, someone who really cares about you. And well it doesn't matter if your mom its cool with the mom of the girls, those are two different stories, you should tell your mom know how this girls are with you, and also tell their mom, although the mom its always going to believe them. Now that i think about it, if you do this , it can bring problems, with your mom and their mom,but HEY don't let that stop you, I know your mom loves you, and she is a nice lady, so tell her what's going on, always trusth your parents.... hope this helps... any question please e-mail me,riveroluis@sbcglobal.net i am always here to help.
Reply:You can be nice to them but that doesn't mean you have to be friends. They don't sound very nice to me either. Explain to your mom that these two girls take advantage of you, are not very nice and tend to tease you. Find another friend who you have things in common with. True friends never leave another behind. Just like the movie Lilo and Stitch. Good luck.
Reply:This is games children play... you can ignore and move on... let them see it's doesn't bother you... hang with people that care about you and show it... no games and back stabbing allowed... make it know that you think they like playing silly little games... running off leaving someone alone ... how lame is that... what if they were scared. it wouldn't be funny to them... Like I said moveon, ignore it... hang with others... hope this helps...
I have these two friends. Read to find one thing they have done but there is a lot more I can't write.?
You don't have to be "nice" to them simply because your moms are friends. I think if you talked to your mom about it she would understand and be very proud of you that you don't want the same bad reputation that these other girls are getting because they are mean. It's a reputation you don't want and you will eventually be thought of being just like them...guilty by association. Hang with Liesel and people like her. You don't need to be rude to these other girls. Just make other plans to hang out with other girls when the moms are getting together. They obviously have serious self-esteem issues (that's why they are mean to others, makes them feel better about themselves). You don't have a self-esteem issue. Good for you!!!! You're a smart kid!
Reply:Okay, there's one clear thing: they aren't exactly your type. You're dealing with a "Three's a crowd" situation and you obviously don't fit in with them. So their mums know your mum. And then what? I'm not saying that you should stop being nice to them. I'm just saying that you guys can be budies but not exactly best friends...you know, on the "Hello, Hi, What's up" level Find a couple of new [best] friends. Friends you have a lot in common with, people more like Liesel. Leave the other two alone. They seem to be made for each other or something.
Reply:if u feel that there really not true friends then there not...instinct and wat the heart tells us usually happen for a eason especially if u question urself...[make sure u look at the pros and cons]u dont have to end the friendship but if u feel like dat and confronted them and they seem like there lyin go w/ ur instincts..GOOD LUCK
Reply:First of all, they are not true friends, a friend always care for you, and never does anything that you are not comfortable with. Leslie in the other hand, seems like a nice person, someone who really cares about you. And well it doesn't matter if your mom its cool with the mom of the girls, those are two different stories, you should tell your mom know how this girls are with you, and also tell their mom, although the mom its always going to believe them. Now that i think about it, if you do this , it can bring problems, with your mom and their mom,but HEY don't let that stop you, I know your mom loves you, and she is a nice lady, so tell her what's going on, always trusth your parents.... hope this helps... any question please e-mail me,riveroluis@sbcglobal.net i am always here to help.
Reply:You can be nice to them but that doesn't mean you have to be friends. They don't sound very nice to me either. Explain to your mom that these two girls take advantage of you, are not very nice and tend to tease you. Find another friend who you have things in common with. True friends never leave another behind. Just like the movie Lilo and Stitch. Good luck.
Reply:This is games children play... you can ignore and move on... let them see it's doesn't bother you... hang with people that care about you and show it... no games and back stabbing allowed... make it know that you think they like playing silly little games... running off leaving someone alone ... how lame is that... what if they were scared. it wouldn't be funny to them... Like I said moveon, ignore it... hang with others... hope this helps...
I have friends that dont know how to mail a letter but can send emails all day long -Dont you find this Crazy?
I just think its sad that some people dont know how to send letters but can send emails And they pay their bills online -One friend of mine had NO idea you could pay them in person at the Utilites office !!!
And I even have friends that have know Idea how to use a Card-catalog at a library -cause they are accustomed to a computer and using search engines - one friend of mine said they never knew of 411 to call for information - This is Nuts !!! LOL !!!
Keep in mind all of my friends are 17 to 20 and live at home except for me - they are learning stuff from me though -cause I'm teaching them things they never heard of!! LOL
Oh yeah %26amp; there is a whole generation of men that cant tell the difference between real BOOBS %26amp; Implants -but thats a whole other subject _LMAO !!!
I have friends that dont know how to mail a letter but can send emails all day long -Dont you find this Crazy?
Well, my parents used a slide rule in school, and my children use a graphing calculator. I used a calculator, but they were a bit expensive.
I wish Word was available when I was in college. It was a nightmare editing papers. Oh yeah, Whiteout wasn't invented yet. Nowadays, you can move entire sections of a paper around without re-typing!
A lot of older people don't know how to turn on a computer or use the Internet. It's a shame, because there is a wealth of information on the WWW.
Reply:That's just nuts, but not the least bit strange. My fourth grade class learned all about writing letters and card catalogs, the "old-fashioned" way to do stuff. My sister's fourth grade class learned to make their own webpage! As new ways of doing things come about, old stuff is being phased out and forgotten. That's insane! Even my grandma sent me an E-card for my birthday this year! LoL
Reply:Who cares? No-one uses snail mail anymore, I've never even seen a library with a card catalogue, why would people go to all that bother when computers have made things easier?
I also hope you appreciate the irony of saying "lol" while talking about the good old days.
Reply:Society is evolving. Computers are a part of everything now so to grow up in such a society why would you do something when you have never needed to (for instance learning how to use a card catalog).
Most young people today have rarely if ever heard of the dewey decimal sytem. Why do the work if a computer will do it for you? Hmm.......
And I even have friends that have know Idea how to use a Card-catalog at a library -cause they are accustomed to a computer and using search engines - one friend of mine said they never knew of 411 to call for information - This is Nuts !!! LOL !!!
Keep in mind all of my friends are 17 to 20 and live at home except for me - they are learning stuff from me though -cause I'm teaching them things they never heard of!! LOL
Oh yeah %26amp; there is a whole generation of men that cant tell the difference between real BOOBS %26amp; Implants -but thats a whole other subject _LMAO !!!
I have friends that dont know how to mail a letter but can send emails all day long -Dont you find this Crazy?
Well, my parents used a slide rule in school, and my children use a graphing calculator. I used a calculator, but they were a bit expensive.
I wish Word was available when I was in college. It was a nightmare editing papers. Oh yeah, Whiteout wasn't invented yet. Nowadays, you can move entire sections of a paper around without re-typing!
A lot of older people don't know how to turn on a computer or use the Internet. It's a shame, because there is a wealth of information on the WWW.
Reply:That's just nuts, but not the least bit strange. My fourth grade class learned all about writing letters and card catalogs, the "old-fashioned" way to do stuff. My sister's fourth grade class learned to make their own webpage! As new ways of doing things come about, old stuff is being phased out and forgotten. That's insane! Even my grandma sent me an E-card for my birthday this year! LoL
Reply:Who cares? No-one uses snail mail anymore, I've never even seen a library with a card catalogue, why would people go to all that bother when computers have made things easier?
I also hope you appreciate the irony of saying "lol" while talking about the good old days.
Reply:Society is evolving. Computers are a part of everything now so to grow up in such a society why would you do something when you have never needed to (for instance learning how to use a card catalog).
Most young people today have rarely if ever heard of the dewey decimal sytem. Why do the work if a computer will do it for you? Hmm.......
I need some new friends where can I find them?
I have this one person that suppose to be my friend, but she acts like she want to be my friend sometimes, and sometimes she act like she don't want to be my friend she was really the only friend I had. I talk to other people when I go to work, but I don't consider them as friends. I tryed really hard to hold on to the friendship, but its hard being friends with somebody thats not on the same page as you. She never calls me i always call her if I want to talk to her. I'am tired now I can't do it anymore.
I need some new friends where can I find them?
friends should be there when days are dark and when its not so dark!!! Remember that please... If friends or a friend is not there for you in times of need then dont consider them as friends... Remember a friends connection with you should be there and you should feel it... Friends are supposed to be precious... If they dont consider you as precious dump them and go without it until you find someone that you share a connection with.
Goodluck and dont stress!!!!
Reply:Good for you!!!! And remember friends come and go!!!! Goodluck and remember their is good friends out there!!! Report It
Reply:Being friends shouldn't be so much work. It should come easy and be fun and mutual. Just find things you like to do...and get acquainted with people that are there with the same interests. You'll find real friends that way.
Reply:If you want to make friends you have to think of your ideal friend: like what kind of qualities she'd have, what kind of person would you want to be your friend, etc. I've been where you are and still are because I got tired of people.
I think you need to check out some online sites like MySpace, Me.com, Tagged, Vois, Yahoo!, etc. I'll be your friend, just click on my pic and leave me an e-mail.
Reply:You might try getting involved in activities that you like, and maybe you will meet people who have similar interest to yours.
For example, if you like gardening, then you may want to join a group that does gardening. Or if you like to paint, then you could take a class on painting where you would meet others who like to paint. Whatever your likes or hobbies are, let them be an outlet for you to meet other people.
Get out there and enjoy life, and you will meet some people. You may not want to be friends with all of them, but if you just make one good friend it will be worth it.
Reply:if the friendship is onesided and you are tired of the dynamics, then maybe go and join a group that interests you. church, craft group, book club...
the only thing you have to change is to be around people who are like you, and the rest falls into place.
good luck.
Reply:www.findanewfriend.com
Reply:You don't need friends like that,either they're gonna be there or not.People come in and out of others life all the time,you still have time to make real friends
Reply:If someone isn't really interested in being friends and you still want to be their friend, then be the better person and be a friend, someday they might need you. However, you can always find a true friend who cares about you as much as you care about them. Just keep meeting ppl and be a good judge of character.
Reply:Check out this group!
false teeth
I need some new friends where can I find them?
friends should be there when days are dark and when its not so dark!!! Remember that please... If friends or a friend is not there for you in times of need then dont consider them as friends... Remember a friends connection with you should be there and you should feel it... Friends are supposed to be precious... If they dont consider you as precious dump them and go without it until you find someone that you share a connection with.
Goodluck and dont stress!!!!
Reply:Good for you!!!! And remember friends come and go!!!! Goodluck and remember their is good friends out there!!! Report It
Reply:Being friends shouldn't be so much work. It should come easy and be fun and mutual. Just find things you like to do...and get acquainted with people that are there with the same interests. You'll find real friends that way.
Reply:If you want to make friends you have to think of your ideal friend: like what kind of qualities she'd have, what kind of person would you want to be your friend, etc. I've been where you are and still are because I got tired of people.
I think you need to check out some online sites like MySpace, Me.com, Tagged, Vois, Yahoo!, etc. I'll be your friend, just click on my pic and leave me an e-mail.
Reply:You might try getting involved in activities that you like, and maybe you will meet people who have similar interest to yours.
For example, if you like gardening, then you may want to join a group that does gardening. Or if you like to paint, then you could take a class on painting where you would meet others who like to paint. Whatever your likes or hobbies are, let them be an outlet for you to meet other people.
Get out there and enjoy life, and you will meet some people. You may not want to be friends with all of them, but if you just make one good friend it will be worth it.
Reply:if the friendship is onesided and you are tired of the dynamics, then maybe go and join a group that interests you. church, craft group, book club...
the only thing you have to change is to be around people who are like you, and the rest falls into place.
good luck.
Reply:www.findanewfriend.com
Reply:You don't need friends like that,either they're gonna be there or not.People come in and out of others life all the time,you still have time to make real friends
Reply:If someone isn't really interested in being friends and you still want to be their friend, then be the better person and be a friend, someday they might need you. However, you can always find a true friend who cares about you as much as you care about them. Just keep meeting ppl and be a good judge of character.
Reply:Check out this group!
false teeth
I want a friend who is Guy( I have too many friends who are girls) can I find one?
I want a very nice person to be my friend who lives in south georgia and is between 14-15...befre that i would like to say suffin...i am 14 years old and i am Asian Indian but i was born here in USA and i have alot of american friends, i have Burgandi Hair(Copper Red) i have dark Brown Eyes, and a slight tan i am in 8th grade and i love playing sports and making new friends.....and i want a friend who is a guy the same....lol kiddin he has to be nice and someone i can look forward to..
I want a friend who is Guy( I have too many friends who are girls) can I find one?
i beleive that guys can not be just friends with girls unless they are not attracted to them .. in other words they dont look at them as possible girlfriends
Reply:however u found a girl-friend u can find a boy-friend
Reply:i have a couple friends that are guys but they allways got wicked jelious of any of my boyfriends. but a boyfriend or husband can be your best friend
Reply:Well just be yourself!!
Boys dont need a act just to get friends.
Reply:It doesn't matter how you look to have a male friend.Just be yourself.
Reply:Hi, I am so you can email me at my yahoo message thing!
I want a friend who is Guy( I have too many friends who are girls) can I find one?
i beleive that guys can not be just friends with girls unless they are not attracted to them .. in other words they dont look at them as possible girlfriends
Reply:however u found a girl-friend u can find a boy-friend
Reply:i have a couple friends that are guys but they allways got wicked jelious of any of my boyfriends. but a boyfriend or husband can be your best friend
Reply:Well just be yourself!!
Boys dont need a act just to get friends.
Reply:It doesn't matter how you look to have a male friend.Just be yourself.
Reply:Hi, I am so you can email me at my yahoo message thing!
Where Can I Find Friends?
At my age (44), you'd think I would not have this problem. My best friend died in 1997, I moved a lot, and I haven't made any other close friends since then. I am also not close with my family. I'm bitter that everyone else has girlfriends they talk to and hang out with, but no one is interested in having a new friend like me. And, yes -- I've been a "friend" to others. It's amazing how I can show interest in someone else's' life, and they will talk about themselves all day -- but they will not ask me about my life or invite me along with the group. I mistakenly mentioned that I have no friends to a co-worker; she now treats me like I have The Plague. I am angry at God for allowing me to get into this situation, and have lost my faith as well. NBC Nightly News says that women who don't have friends are putting their health at risk. (Great -- now that, too?) Anyone else in a similar situation? Or, have you overcome this horrible circumstance? Please share -- I need hope!
Where Can I Find Friends?
dont go on myspace...you need real friends
well your situation is a bit unfortunate but i think i have some tips...
Get involved in things whether it be...at a gym or a group or team of somesort....get out there and meet people who share the same interests....
Invite a group of coworkers to lunch or something..
and when people talk to you...make it an effort to amp up the convo....keep it goin and talk to people more...whether it be a simple 'hello' every morning..?
Communication is key...
Join in a charity group or somewhere
possibly get a new look so people will compliment you and ask questions...?
Start a new trend
Example...
My friend bought a Vera Bradley bag....it became a hit among everyone she showed her bag to and now 17 of my friends have one...they get compliments all the time!
Dont worry about finding that ONE best friend to Confide In...she/he will come..and thats where God comes in.
Last...
Please dont blame God....Something Amazing will happen in your life...And It will say 'From:God' all over it
Faith is next to a neccessity for people in this world and i assure you...God's got this all in His hands...
Trust Your Faith...and Keep The Peace...And Pray heavily....prayer is where the truth is...Something this website could never tell you
Peace.Love.Hope
Reply:Yes definitely been in that situation, and not too long ago too. I gave up searching and guess what? Now I have 2 new friends. I gave up and threw myself into something I always wanted to do which was sewing and quilting. I prayed for this to happen and the very next week there was an add in the paper. I went along to the class and it took me till the end of the class to get to know the others really well but now I am happy that they actually want to spend more time with me.
I also potter away in the garden. Be yourself and make yourself happy first.
Reply:I have had a similiar problem. My best friend moved away and I was at lost on what to do without her. I had friends, but not that one really great friend you shared and did everything with. Anyway, I went back to school at the local community college and chose a class I was intrested in for fun. I met alot people who were intrested in the subject and became really good friends with one. We both enjoyed that class so much we took another and have been best friends ever since. I know its hard to get back out there, but classes and/ or group functions seem to work the best.
There is also this dice game called Bunco (you can look up the rules), but it is just an excuse to invite people over to socialize. You could invite people from work or other aquaintances- you never know where it could lead. I wish I could do more for you, but good luck!
Reply:Don't blame God. You must have just missed them, maybe because you're looking the other way when your path crossed in those yesteryears? Get moving and learn how to smile, I'm sure you'll meet friends along the way. Good luck!
Reply:I have a hard time forging friendships with other women myself. Men? No problem.
I'm tempted to join a book club or a volunteer organization. Try it. Good luck.
Reply:It's not Gods fault you don't have friends, it's your own. Go out to different places, change your attitude. Get a happy, out look on life, and friends will find you. That is just the impression I gather from your question and description.
Reply:go on myspace
Reply:wow.. thats not good.. im sorry. well just try and not be so bitter.. i kno its hard my sisters very bitter and when your happy people like to be around you. or else ignore your coworkers just like they ignore you and just be pleasant as you can to everyone else.. hope i helped
Reply:Blaming God?????
c'mon......
you have to want friends, you have to be open to friendship.
f you are as bitter outwardly, as you are in this question.... no one will want to be with you.
Make up your mind to smile and appreciate everyone around you.
That in itself will draw people to you.
Make known you tastes/interests in music, literature, and such...that will weed out people that are not compatible.
But, by all means.... buck up...don't be bitter...
reap what you sow?
good luck
Reply:I think, if you take classes like, say pottery, jewelry, dance, anything! Then you would meet people who are willing to make friends too. Another thing, is if you're bored, then get a make over. A new wardrobe! A new hairstyle will even do!
To make yourself feel happy is the first step. That's what I think.
Reply:I can HELP YOU...you are NEVER to old to club..im serious here. Go to a club and meet some people. If you are not the "Club kinda person, go to myspace and meet locals in your area...And um i have a huge tip. Be Sociable and likable! People will enjoy being around you if you are socialble and likable. Dont wait for others to ask how you are, bring it up themselves. Be a funny person. I know its hard to gain some social skills, but with a little work, you'll be great at it! DONT WORRY, it will all come out fine..
I hope i Helped and You have a Wonderful day!
Reply:Do you have a church that you attend ? Maybe vist a nursing home or hospital, there are lots of lonely people there that could use a friend. There are people that donate time and services to different causes. Maybe someone could use a hand in your neighborhood. Next time your outside doing yardwork or picking up the mail, time it so that a neighbor is also outside. Strike up a converstion or make a comment about the weather, Don't forget, other people may be in a similar situation and are a little awkward about meeting people too. Start there.
Reply:First of all God does not have you in this situation. AND YOU KNOW THAT. If you get closer to God you would understand that God does not want you around bad people. Why would you want to be around people who don't care for you? So God will give you the friends He has for you at the right time. Have you tried myspace? Here is also a good place to find friends. I am more then happy to become your friend. Visit my myspace profile send me a message. http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fus... You might be surprised how God works in mysteriouse ways. God bless. REMEMBER GOD LOVES YOU!
Reply:make some
Reply:my mother has this problem...
one thing you can do is join a church, and get involved. Volunteer for something, especially if it involves group work. Don't advertize the fact that you don't have any friends, because people will think there really is something wrong with you! People usually don't understand that under some circumstances it is difficult to have real friends. Just meet people, socialize, and maybe you will find new friends!
Oh, and if you are divorced (like my mom), single women might keep you at safe distance because some would be afraid you are after their husbands (dumb, I know). So maybe try to hang out with other single women, and they probably make better friends anyways, because they don't spend most of their time with their husbands.
Reply:: (. im sorry. you can be my friend and i will be yours : )
to start, believe in god again. you cant be angry at him. he does so much for us and we push it off after one thing. thats not fair. give him another chance. maybe if you pray to him, ask him if he could help guide youi to a friend. a true one.
it sounds corny i know, but its true. it will work. you need to be open to new things if you want this to work.
dont tell people you have no friends like that. she probably considered you a friend and you blatently showed her up. thats bad. keep it inside, . your coworker prob, thinks you dont like her when maybe she liked you.
it will effect your health, because you are being depressed.
if you live in a neighborhood with other woman your age, start a book club or invite them over for a drink or something. just start by talking. say hi to people.
start by having a positive outlook on life. when you are positiv,e it will lighten the mood for the other person.
well. i hope i helped. jus tbe happy : )
= )
Reply:Simple, go be a party animal. Go to the bars. Find some of "those friends" meet those friend's friends. Have orgies, gangbangs, make porn! do it all... eventually something will come along
Where Can I Find Friends?
dont go on myspace...you need real friends
well your situation is a bit unfortunate but i think i have some tips...
Get involved in things whether it be...at a gym or a group or team of somesort....get out there and meet people who share the same interests....
Invite a group of coworkers to lunch or something..
and when people talk to you...make it an effort to amp up the convo....keep it goin and talk to people more...whether it be a simple 'hello' every morning..?
Communication is key...
Join in a charity group or somewhere
possibly get a new look so people will compliment you and ask questions...?
Start a new trend
Example...
My friend bought a Vera Bradley bag....it became a hit among everyone she showed her bag to and now 17 of my friends have one...they get compliments all the time!
Dont worry about finding that ONE best friend to Confide In...she/he will come..and thats where God comes in.
Last...
Please dont blame God....Something Amazing will happen in your life...And It will say 'From:God' all over it
Faith is next to a neccessity for people in this world and i assure you...God's got this all in His hands...
Trust Your Faith...and Keep The Peace...And Pray heavily....prayer is where the truth is...Something this website could never tell you
Peace.Love.Hope
Reply:Yes definitely been in that situation, and not too long ago too. I gave up searching and guess what? Now I have 2 new friends. I gave up and threw myself into something I always wanted to do which was sewing and quilting. I prayed for this to happen and the very next week there was an add in the paper. I went along to the class and it took me till the end of the class to get to know the others really well but now I am happy that they actually want to spend more time with me.
I also potter away in the garden. Be yourself and make yourself happy first.
Reply:I have had a similiar problem. My best friend moved away and I was at lost on what to do without her. I had friends, but not that one really great friend you shared and did everything with. Anyway, I went back to school at the local community college and chose a class I was intrested in for fun. I met alot people who were intrested in the subject and became really good friends with one. We both enjoyed that class so much we took another and have been best friends ever since. I know its hard to get back out there, but classes and/ or group functions seem to work the best.
There is also this dice game called Bunco (you can look up the rules), but it is just an excuse to invite people over to socialize. You could invite people from work or other aquaintances- you never know where it could lead. I wish I could do more for you, but good luck!
Reply:Don't blame God. You must have just missed them, maybe because you're looking the other way when your path crossed in those yesteryears? Get moving and learn how to smile, I'm sure you'll meet friends along the way. Good luck!
Reply:I have a hard time forging friendships with other women myself. Men? No problem.
I'm tempted to join a book club or a volunteer organization. Try it. Good luck.
Reply:It's not Gods fault you don't have friends, it's your own. Go out to different places, change your attitude. Get a happy, out look on life, and friends will find you. That is just the impression I gather from your question and description.
Reply:go on myspace
Reply:wow.. thats not good.. im sorry. well just try and not be so bitter.. i kno its hard my sisters very bitter and when your happy people like to be around you. or else ignore your coworkers just like they ignore you and just be pleasant as you can to everyone else.. hope i helped
Reply:Blaming God?????
c'mon......
you have to want friends, you have to be open to friendship.
f you are as bitter outwardly, as you are in this question.... no one will want to be with you.
Make up your mind to smile and appreciate everyone around you.
That in itself will draw people to you.
Make known you tastes/interests in music, literature, and such...that will weed out people that are not compatible.
But, by all means.... buck up...don't be bitter...
reap what you sow?
good luck
Reply:I think, if you take classes like, say pottery, jewelry, dance, anything! Then you would meet people who are willing to make friends too. Another thing, is if you're bored, then get a make over. A new wardrobe! A new hairstyle will even do!
To make yourself feel happy is the first step. That's what I think.
Reply:I can HELP YOU...you are NEVER to old to club..im serious here. Go to a club and meet some people. If you are not the "Club kinda person, go to myspace and meet locals in your area...And um i have a huge tip. Be Sociable and likable! People will enjoy being around you if you are socialble and likable. Dont wait for others to ask how you are, bring it up themselves. Be a funny person. I know its hard to gain some social skills, but with a little work, you'll be great at it! DONT WORRY, it will all come out fine..
I hope i Helped and You have a Wonderful day!
Reply:Do you have a church that you attend ? Maybe vist a nursing home or hospital, there are lots of lonely people there that could use a friend. There are people that donate time and services to different causes. Maybe someone could use a hand in your neighborhood. Next time your outside doing yardwork or picking up the mail, time it so that a neighbor is also outside. Strike up a converstion or make a comment about the weather, Don't forget, other people may be in a similar situation and are a little awkward about meeting people too. Start there.
Reply:First of all God does not have you in this situation. AND YOU KNOW THAT. If you get closer to God you would understand that God does not want you around bad people. Why would you want to be around people who don't care for you? So God will give you the friends He has for you at the right time. Have you tried myspace? Here is also a good place to find friends. I am more then happy to become your friend. Visit my myspace profile send me a message. http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fus... You might be surprised how God works in mysteriouse ways. God bless. REMEMBER GOD LOVES YOU!
Reply:make some
Reply:my mother has this problem...
one thing you can do is join a church, and get involved. Volunteer for something, especially if it involves group work. Don't advertize the fact that you don't have any friends, because people will think there really is something wrong with you! People usually don't understand that under some circumstances it is difficult to have real friends. Just meet people, socialize, and maybe you will find new friends!
Oh, and if you are divorced (like my mom), single women might keep you at safe distance because some would be afraid you are after their husbands (dumb, I know). So maybe try to hang out with other single women, and they probably make better friends anyways, because they don't spend most of their time with their husbands.
Reply:: (. im sorry. you can be my friend and i will be yours : )
to start, believe in god again. you cant be angry at him. he does so much for us and we push it off after one thing. thats not fair. give him another chance. maybe if you pray to him, ask him if he could help guide youi to a friend. a true one.
it sounds corny i know, but its true. it will work. you need to be open to new things if you want this to work.
dont tell people you have no friends like that. she probably considered you a friend and you blatently showed her up. thats bad. keep it inside, . your coworker prob, thinks you dont like her when maybe she liked you.
it will effect your health, because you are being depressed.
if you live in a neighborhood with other woman your age, start a book club or invite them over for a drink or something. just start by talking. say hi to people.
start by having a positive outlook on life. when you are positiv,e it will lighten the mood for the other person.
well. i hope i helped. jus tbe happy : )
= )
Reply:Simple, go be a party animal. Go to the bars. Find some of "those friends" meet those friend's friends. Have orgies, gangbangs, make porn! do it all... eventually something will come along
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