Sunday, August 22, 2010

What is the best FREE site to find people with? I need to get in touch with family and friends that have moved

Most sites advertise FREE search but want you to pay when they find something. I need something reliable and FREE all the way to search for friends and family. Most sites dont give enough information or spotty data that is not really usable.

What is the best FREE site to find people with? I need to get in touch with family and friends that have moved
If you know the state they moved to, you can go to Zabaseach.com and type in their name and it will give you addresses.
Reply:The best method is to "google" them or use all the directories available. The whitepages.com is an excellent source if you have some information such as the state they moved to. Yahoo and MSN also have directories that might be of help. You can do a search under the persons name but that's never been very successful for me.
Reply:http://people-search-types.50megs.com/


How can i find really cheap flights and a place to stay from AMS to somewhere sunny with my friends?? help!!!!

Hi!


Me and my friends all want to go on holiday summer 2008 to somewhere on the coast with sun and culture but we cant find many flights that leave cheaply from Amsterdam airport...





Everything is really expensive...





Does anyone know any useful links where you can fly cheaply and get a place to stay (hotel, villa, anything)





Any help will be appreciated!!





Thank you!!

How can i find really cheap flights and a place to stay from AMS to somewhere sunny with my friends?? help!!!!
Get the train from Amsterdam to Paris and then a train Paris to Nice for the French coast
Reply:travelzoo.com... (.co.uk?)

gold teeth

What do you do when u have a boyfriend thats out of town then u find out ur friends asked out somone 4 u?

I have a have a boyfriend right and hes out of town for family buisnes. Then I found out my so called friends asked someone out for me and they wont tell u who it is. Then some of ur boyfriends buds find out and tell him then all of a sudden everyone thinks ur a 2 time backstabing slut and no one will talk to u not even ur boyfriend and ur confused about the whole thing. !HELP!

What do you do when u have a boyfriend thats out of town then u find out ur friends asked out somone 4 u?
i don't have a problem i have too many BF
Reply:well first you need to BREATH!!! It takes time for things to blow over and if your boyfriend really loves you then he will alow you two to talk when he calms down. And as for your friends..REVENEGE!!!


What do you do when u have a boyfriend thats out of town then u find out ur friends asked out somone 4 u?

I have a have a boyfriend right and hes out of town for family buisnes. Then I found out my so called friends asked someone out for me and they wont tell u who it is. Then some of ur boyfriends buds find out and tell him then all of a sudden everyone thinks ur a 2 time backstabing s*** and no one will talk to u not even ur boyfriend and ur confused about the whole thing. !HELP!

What do you do when u have a boyfriend thats out of town then u find out ur friends asked out somone 4 u?
you should have asked the question before you went out with the other guy and you heard wat you said so called friend get rid of her because she is probably a 2timing backstabing s*** and you know what they say you are who you hang with but explain to him what happened if he doesnt understand then thats your loss but remember life goes onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn dont make the same mistake 2wice
Reply:Tell your friends they better get this straightened out and real quick or you tell every dirty secret about them...even if you have to make it up. Understand?
Reply:Soooo much drama....ask dawson to have a chat over a mocha lattechino and tell him straight that this girl is a lying ho and he should trust you. Then go put the boots to this Beyatch and make her fess up.
Reply:just tell him what happened. He'll understand.
Reply:First off If you and your boyfriend have a good relationship built on trust then you have nothing to worry about. Second If I where you I would talk to my friend and explain why you are upset. Don't let it upset you, you didn't do anything...
Reply:just be honest with ur bf
Reply:you should talk to him andtell him u had no idea that ure friends will ever do that talk to him personaly
Reply:just tell your boyfriend what happened, stop talking to the so called friend that set you up with the other guy in the first place and lay low until the dust settles.


Hello,I find English people so charming, with a nice sense of humor, i will love to make friends. I am Mexican

Hello my friends, I am a Mexican woman, I just wanted to say that i find english people very friendly and nice. I love english tv shows, i like changing rooms and what not to wear, maybe are not the best english tv shows, but they had show me how nice english people are.


Greetings from Mexico to all of you !!!!

Hello,I find English people so charming, with a nice sense of humor, i will love to make friends. I am Mexican
Hi!





You sound charming yourself!!





I happen to LOVE Mexican food!!





Thank you for your kind words.
Reply:i had a mexican once, it was too hot thou....
Reply:I'm an Englishman, living in Upstate New York. I live in a rural area, and as far as I know, I am the only Englishman within 20 miles. I have become a bit of a celebrity, but am nothing special, apart from I have the natural charisma, and manners of the English. I was surprised the cultural differences, and the differences in peoples attitudes, and the way that people talk to each other when I came here.





Do not believe everything that you see on television, the English are the same as any people, they have their good people, and their bad people, sometimes more bad than good.





But on the whole, the English are good people, but then I am heavily biased!!! but also speak from experience.
Reply:im a welsh guy....england is just a few miles away....we are much freindlier than the english..i like tely....fools and horeses.dancing on ice...i am a painter/ decorator so i keep in touch with tv shows that include colours


gretings from great britain
Reply:holaaa, como estas? yo hablas solo porquito espanol, porque yo soy del carolina del norte...pero yo solo quieres...to say hola jajaja no siento...adios %26lt;3
Reply:hello!! I also share the liking in another ethnic background. i am italian, american indian, german %26amp; irish. basicly white with indian. i like the hispanis heritage and have always dreamed of living in mexico,
Reply:I'm so glad we off the rest of the UK also find them charming but are you sure they were English they could have been welsh Irish or even Scottish.... England isn't British they just think they are and I'm sure you very nice Mexican lady but we the rest of the Brits say hi and are also very nice
Reply:Greetings to you . London- UK
Reply:Hello





Hows Mexico. Is life good or tough. Are you in the city, coast or country ?





Regards


Jex





UK
Reply:dont forget about the irish we are nicer
Reply:see- i can't speak a word of spanish but I love watching Mexican TV. I love Mexican Music, Mexican Food, mexican Vacations and Mexican People...You here all the folks here whining about all the Mexicans coming here...It's cool with me....They hard working, family oriented, sexy and as in all the other cultures that now live in the United States, us white folk can learn alot from all the "non-white" folk if we just pull our pampas heads out of our asses. Greetings Back at You Friend and Have a Blesses and Joyous Christmas! Your Amigo!
Reply:Charming Wow!Your Extra News here!


★※★ http://www.osoq.com/funstuff/extra/extra...
Reply:hello! nice to 'meet' you! I am from Barbados and to find most of the english friendly. I live in london and its nice.


I have tried to find connect@teletext.co.uk it is a page from ITV4 to find old friends on tv text can you help

I have been trying to find tv channel 4's connect@teletext.co.uk on the net but have had no joy can you help me please ........it is used to find old friends.

I have tried to find connect@teletext.co.uk it is a page from ITV4 to find old friends on tv text can you help
Have you tried friends reunited?

baby teeth losing

Can you tell me any other sites such as facebox.com and meteen.com where I can find friends teenagers?

Can you tell me any other sites such as facebox.com and meteen.com where I can find friends teenagers?

Can you tell me any other sites such as facebox.com and meteen.com where I can find friends teenagers?
How about www.paedophilepredator.com or www.lookingforkidstorape.com
Reply:Try myspace.com, friendster.com, hi5.com, and live.spaces.com.


What do you do when you find out a media mogel is supporting waste management criminals and there friends?

What happens when you find out that a media mogel is supporting wastemanagement criminals and there friends and using tv as pyschcological warfare on innocent people to destroy them for fun, amusement and sport.

What do you do when you find out a media mogel is supporting waste management criminals and there friends?
I ask for more specifics such as WHICH "media mogul"?





How are "waste management criminals" conducting psychological warfare and for what reason?
Reply:I get mad.


Do you know any website where i can find ready made letter for your love ones or friends?

i'm not really good in wrting or expressing my thoughts and feelings in letter. I would really appreciate if you would help me find a website where there is ready made letters for friends or love ones.

Do you know any website where i can find ready made letter for your love ones or friends?
well try writing your own first :P


lovingyou.com is a nice site :P


read the quotes ;) really nice





take carez


have fun
Reply:go to search.com then look up cards and pick from there or also i think the name of one site is cards.com


lol


peace


felix
Reply:hahaha. say it instead
Reply:Letters remain hugely important in our everyday lives. People still feel the need to hv something confirmed in writing. Below are some top tips for getting u letter right.


Before u begin writing a letter ask yourself.


Why I am writing this letter or what has led up to it?


What do I hope to get out of it ( my maximum aims ) ?


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What is the best way to achieve this?


What information do I need to provide?


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Please visit the above links. I hope , it helps u.


How come ppl freak out when they find out ur gay when they have been ur friends for a while???

how come when ur friends find out ur gay they get all scared it makes me so mad my god its not like im going 2 hit on u for real a gay girl is just like a straight girl im not atracted 2 every girl i see just like a straight girl isnt atracted 2 every guy they see do u get my point grrr it makes me so mad i hate it i need help on this

How come ppl freak out when they find out ur gay when they have been ur friends for a while???
One of my best friends was scared to come out to us for that very reason. But what he learned is that, as his real friends, we didn't care about who he was attracted to, but his happiness. Your real friends will love you any way, even if it is a little weird at first.
Reply:Unfortunately, you will always come up against that. Just try and be careful who you tell when you first meet them. A lot of people won't accept your circumstances (even though it has absolutely nothing to do with them directly) given on how they're raised or what they believe in. Unfortunately, not a lot of people adopt the attitude "live and let live". I hope it can change for future generations and people become more open minded. No one does anyone else any harm in my opinion, and cause an awful lot of needless hurt...but that's just my humble opinion...
Reply:girl, don't even worry about it..be who you are.

wisdom teeth

What do u do if u recently realize that ur bi-sexual and some of ur straight friends find out ?

u know u try to keep it in the closet and ur straight friends find out and ur afraid that they might look at u different?

What do u do if u recently realize that ur bi-sexual and some of ur straight friends find out ?
A true friend won't be bothered by this. I have plenty of bi friends. I'm not bi myself but we still have fun flirting it up for the guys just to watch em drool lol.
Reply:dance the night away!
Reply:ya EO844 is right
Reply:Your friends don't determine the lifestyle you live.Go on and enjoy your life.After all friends should accept you no matter what you are.true friends accept you the way you are.
Reply:I think society views this really different if you are a girl you have a good shot no one will care I think its hot my self. if you are a guy then you might meet a little bit of a bad reaction. Especially if you play sports you might find a lot of bad moments. If you do I would recommend not so that you can kinda avoid this moments. if one of my buddies when I was in high school came to me with this I would of been ok with it just told him upfront not to say hey look at his a** or something and not to hit on me. So it may be ok but it is impossible to tell how people will take things. But like I said if you are a girl you have a great chance that it will be ok.
Reply:If they have an issue with it then they are not your friends.


Is there a site i can find christmas lists or wish lists i can send to friends to get sizes,fave color?

id like to send out a santa questionair for them to fill out and send back things like there sizes,favorite color hobbies they have music preference so it takes out the geuss work during the holidays is there a site i mite find all ready constructed blank form letters that i can down load to email them to family and friends

Is there a site i can find christmas lists or wish lists i can send to friends to get sizes,fave color?
http://www.scrap-a-latte.net/forums/show...


I'm Asian but I find that I like Caucasian people and I have many Caucasian friends. Is this normal?

I grew up in Singapore, which is a predominantly Asian society. I find the culture there very tense and highly-strung due to emphasis on good results and economic competitiveness.


I find it difficult to relate to my peers who are Asian and I was ostracised by my Chinese classmates in Primary and High School.


Since coming to uni in Australia I find that I made lots of friends, especially with White people. I like their individualism and their relaxed, laidback lifestyle. They also know how to take things easy.


Is this normal? I don't like mixing with Asian people because Asians rejected my friendship when I was younger. I find Chinese culture to be very judgmental and unforgiving. I openly embrace Western society and all its glorious attributes!

I'm Asian but I find that I like Caucasian people and I have many Caucasian friends. Is this normal?
It's really a regret that you have never really know the Asian culture even you was grew up from a Asian country. Chinese are normally much more reserved than the western. But they will definitely won't reject anyone friendship who is sincere.





I had worked with Chinese and western in Singapore. Most of the time, when I made a mistake, although the chinese boss or colleague may comment on it, but they forget the matter after sometime. The western just keep quiet and remain friendly, but they still brought the matter up after sometime.
Reply:I dont think it has got anything to do with you being Asian and liking Caucasians more. I think its because you do not agree with how your Chinese classmates were brought up. Im guessing that you were brought up the "Western way". Im a Filipino, and I had a lot of Chinese classmates in college, I just got along with them fine even if our beliefs were totally different since I was brought up differently from them. It not really about the race, its more about the culture.
Reply:why wouldn't it be?





race and culture are two separate traits
Reply:no problem at all.


by the way, have you tried middle easterners? around Dubai and California/Texas, you meet alot of great middle easterners that welcome diversity and are easy to get along with [:
Reply:Yes, certainly it is normal. It just so happen that you are more in sync with caucasians. It does not really matter what race you're from as long as you have meeting of the minds so to speak.
Reply:nothing wrong with it...I find myself more comfortable with Asians and the discipline that many have
Reply:It all sounds rational to me!





However, do use some caution. There is much to be said for the security of tradition. And we Caucasian liberals tend sometimes to have minds so open that our brains fall out.
Reply:I am for Internationalism. In fact when I was growing up, my best friend was from North Korea. One time we even caught and cooked a doggies together )).
Reply:Asians who go to other countries for study etc tend to congregate together - %26amp; then complain that they are not accepted into the broader community.





People like you who are seen to be willing to mix with others are generally well accepted here.





Plus you have the advantage of being from Singapore - Singaporeans are overall generally warmly welcomed by Australians.....(I've had some enjoyable holidays there!).





Don't let anyone put you off - mix with whoever you feel the most comfortable ....
Reply:Race is a false pretense, a lie intended to serve the egotistical, social and political agendas of people too ignorant, deluded or self-interested to care about the truth.
Reply:I think it's normal. Have heard of how friendly Australians are although I was never out of this little dot (Singapore).





As for your dislike to mix with Asians, that is personal so no one can tell you who to or not to mix with. You have the right to mix with friends whom you are comfortable with! I tend to mix with the English-speaking crowd and some will label me as trying to act class and stuff like that. But I couldn't care about their worthless comments. =)





One thing I agree with you is the emphasis on good results. During family gatherings of any sort, the first thing an aunt/uncle will ask is about academic results. However, this is just my personal experience.


How do I find Mecosta County Trading Post Link so I can send it to my friends to Join?

When I try to send the line to my friends it brings up my group with my ID I can't seem to find it on the groups when I type it in under Mecosta County Trading Post


Thanks

How do I find Mecosta County Trading Post Link so I can send it to my friends to Join?
Use the invite page to compose them :)

shark teeth

Why did my q? get deleted all i wanted to know is how to find my friends email adress when im on his myspace?

why would yahoo delete it i just wanted to know how to find out my friends email adress when im looking at his myspace

Why did my q? get deleted all i wanted to know is how to find my friends email adress when im on his myspace?
The thing is, Yahoo! users are constantly reporting other Yahoo! users for abuse, it is just not acceptable and I agree with you, so the below may interest you.





Use http://www.dizzay.com instead, or a similar site.





Join the strike. See here for more details:


http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind...





P.S. The reason I'm still on Yahoo! etc. in the comments section.
Reply:to answer your first question, you cant. because myspace dosnt post the emails of ppl on myspace. just for saftey. but if you know his email you could search and find him


Do you all know of a good website to find funny things to post in my friends guestbook ?

Do you all know of a good website to find funny things to post in my friends guestbook or to update my personal page?

Do you all know of a good website to find funny things to post in my friends guestbook ?
joked.com


How do I find an intelligent and attractive woman who has little or no male friends?

I'm 35 and have an active dating life, but what I'm looking for is hard to find. I also have no female friends outside of work.

How do I find an intelligent and attractive woman who has little or no male friends?
believe me, woman with no male friends is getting yourself in big trouble. don't be that paranoid.
Reply:Start going to church activities.
Reply:If she is intelligent and attractive, she would have a lot of male friends.
Reply:that is really hard! hwere can u find a female that has no male friends? my best avdice is to not be so picky and be happy that u have an oppertunity to date a certain girl! open ur eyes..every girls has a male friend..
Reply:why should she not have friends? A friend is just a friend regardless of gender. And if she is that intelligent and attractive, I am sure that she would have friends, male or otherwise. Maybe you should revise you standards a little they seem a little unattainable.
Reply:Why would you not want a woman to have male friends?? That seems very controlling and a little bit creepy. When you find someone you like, who cares what people she has as friends. Love is so special and so hard to find, why limit yourself by something silly like that?
Reply:You sound a bit insecure if one of your requirements is that she "has little or no male friends".


I would worry more about getting yourself complete before looking for love. If you are happy with yourself then you won't feel threatened by a girls "male friends".


Good luck though.
Reply:become an intelligent and attractive lesbian.
Reply:Why are you looking for a woman with little or no male friends? Women with more male friends tend to be happier.... Not to mention the fact that if you're planning on dating her, it probably feels better to know that she chose you to be the one when she had all those other male friends to choose from, right?


Is there a good way to find local or semi local people to be "phone friends" or "pen pals" with??

I have 2 kids and I dont get out much at all. I want to find a "phone friends". Someone that I can talk to whenever I need someone. Keep in mind... I dont have babysitter, so I dont get out too much without kids, and it is hard for me to just be myself and lets things happen.

Is there a good way to find local or semi local people to be "phone friends" or "pen pals" with??
internet? yeah, if u look up pin pals on the net, you can get to know them then ask their phone #


sorry, thats all i got. hopefully u get some better awnsers
Reply:You should check the phone book or of course the net!

teeth whitening

Are there any other 30 something women out there who find it hard to make friends with other women?

As a woman, I just find it impossible to find friends with similar interests, who don't have a hidden agenda. Any suggestions?

Are there any other 30 something women out there who find it hard to make friends with other women?
http://www.datingmadeeasy.info/


http://www.date.com/?trackid=00000002471...


http://www.edatingcentral.com/


http://www.lavalife.com/guest/welcome.ac...


http://promotions.personals.yahoo.com/ge...


http://www.datingsoftware.org/


http://www.aewebworks.com/


http://www.cuteflame.com/


http://www.idatingonline.com/


http://www.mybestdate.co.uk/


http://www.123-online-dating.com/


http://www.dating-online.us/


http://www.datingsupercenter.com/


http://www.dateandbeyond.com/


http://www.people-services.net/


Please visit the above pages. I hope, it helps u.
Reply:You need to determine what your interests are, and join like-minded people. for example, i always wanted to learn belly dancing and joined a class, friends just seemed to happen naturally,from that, as we all had something we enjoyed talking about. Dont appear too eager to make friends such as asking for phone numbers straight away, as this can be a bit off-putting.as trust has to be earned. Let people get used to you and youll find they are more likely to want to know you better.
Reply:Are you involved in any church groups??? Do you volunteer anywhere??? That might help.
Reply:I have the same problem.
Reply:females are no good they smile in your face,and be sleeping with your man at the same time.they keep to much drama going.
Reply:I dont have any suggestions but yes i know what you mean i have more male friends then female friends beacuase a lot of guys see me as that just one of the guys im not sure how to change that since ive known most of them for 15+ years


Where i can find networking and hardwware interview questions it can be good one ok friends i will wait for u?

where i can find networking and hardwware interview questions it can be good one ok friends i will wait for ur answer but fast

Where i can find networking and hardwware interview questions it can be good one ok friends i will wait for u?
go to these sites -





1.techinterview.com


2.coolinterview.com


3.geekinterview.com
Reply:Hi,





I personally refer following website.





http://compnetworking.about.com/





Regards,





Ajit Kumar
Reply:i have sat on www.google.com before my first interview for the post of SR Network admin and i am through in 2 hours.





Try searching for Networking Interview Questions and Server Administration Interview Queations and i am sure you can learn many things.





Still need help get back to me.


Help me find a caravan site in mid/north wales were me and 3 male friends can go for weekend in feb/march?

Me and 3 male friends 25-28 require a caravan site that will let in young groups and that is open now. We want to stay 29th feb - 2nd march. We need a break away from work. We cant find anywere open this time of year .

Help me find a caravan site in mid/north wales were me and 3 male friends can go for weekend in feb/march?
try this link its full of campsites


http://www.ukcampsite.co.uk/sites/


good luck and have fun
Reply:Try www.camp-sites.co.uk/wales/north (or mid), I have used it.
Reply:haven (presthaven sands)
Reply:You must be joking ! ! WALES don't make me laugh,pack your bags and fly off to Tobago ! !
Reply:Don't think anywhere will welcome 4 guys.


The damage potential after boozing is too high!


How to find someone to talk to? I am a housewife and have very few friends(none I can talk to regularly)?

for the last 5 years we lived isolated in the center of 100 acres of a florida forest, but I at least had a couple of my husbands family to interact with daily. Now we have moved I have no friends and I am not very social. 99% -99.9% of all words that come out of my mouth are to our 3 year old daughter. I dont get along with most of the types in public groups. I am 29 now but was a heavy metal/ skater/ punk type growing up. where can I find another girl to talk to remembering the Megadeath days and wanting to dye our hair blue again?

How to find someone to talk to? I am a housewife and have very few friends(none I can talk to regularly)?
You can find a chatgroup on yahoo that you're interested in joining, or you can play yahoo games you like and talk with the people you are playing with. Those are both good ways to find people with similar interests to talk to.
Reply:Maybe you should do a search of people that have or had the same type of interest as you do. You will be surprised as these days there are many groups out-there. Try to sit one night on Yahoo search or google and just type your interest in many different ways to see what you find.
Reply:Don't make fun of others.
Reply:You need to get out and start meeting people. Join a gym and take a pilates class or other workout class. You may even be able to take a swim class with your daughter and will most definitely meet other moms like yourself. Or take a night class at a local community college. Chances are that you'll meet other people your age with kids and maybe you can set up playdates. That'll give both you and your child a social outlet! And trust me, at first glance you may not know that some of these other moms used to ride skateboards and dye their hair funky colors, but start talking! You'll find out they aren't so different from you!
Reply:Hey I am a homemaker so I am online most of the day so I have plenty of time to chat with someone.
Reply:Why do you feel your associations should be only with people who think JUST LIKE YOU? I have friends from all walks of life because I want to hear other opinions. Would it be such a tragedy for someone to want pink hair rather than blue? OMG... Sweating Bullets!!! Get the point, yet? I'm 40yo, tats, pierced, ugly as a stump and almost as smart as one, but, even my DUMB *** knows opinions are like assholes...Everyone has one, Some just smell worse than others!! Open your mind girl!!!
Reply:I am sorry that you are having a tough time. I recommend that you find a church that you enjoy. Church is a great place to find friends that live close to you.
Reply:I use to dye my hair blue!!!! I stayed at home with my two kids for a long time too and decided to get back into the workforce. If you want you can email me. I am checking my email all the time. I love Megadeth still to this day(Actually have one of the cds in my van).
Reply:Try some of the pen pal web sites.

teeth

Other than sports, what topics do you find appropriate to start conversations with your friends?

In general, I want to know what topics do people converse to their friends.





I find it sometimes near impossible to find topics to begin conversations with other people.

Other than sports, what topics do you find appropriate to start conversations with your friends?
Poop jokes
Reply:Sharing a funny story at work or at home...asking them of


they read a new best seller, asking them about their


day/experiences....current events, %26amp; so on.. but please


dont talk about Aunt Mays Kidney stone operation, or


anything like that!
Reply:oh two good ones are politics and religion. then you can taper off. maybe sometimes it gets people really going and angry lol. i love it. but there are so many things talking about traveling to different states and maybe going on a cruise is fun and they may know something about that. i mean there are so many topics painting a barn house or something tlike that.
Reply:Howareya? Graduate quickly to You look good~now zoom in with so what about them Blazers? Then giver her a big smile. Deep breath and bear in mind that the only thing scary about girls is that we are girls. Think about our situation, we have to talk to boys?!? lol....really, its the best advice ever, no matter what we look or act like or whatever we are girls. Not robots, not possessions, not monsters. just girls. Try saying anything light. or maybe check her comfort. Warm enough, need a coat? CALLIFYOUSAYYOUAREGONNACALL.. Thank her for spending her time with you and get her home before curfew. This applies to you big boys too by the way, if you are young you are setting a pattern, hope ya like it, if you are old and alone go back to the start of this answer. Thank You very much.
Reply:That's typically because you want to use the social environment around you to your advantage. It's a skill that's developed through use, and IMO, essential to starting a relationship. Ask them what they did this summer, movies, any part time jobs, music, concerts, and several other things. Note that you don't want to come off as talking too much, so...just keep on developing those social skills.
Reply:Bring somthing up that was funny or what you did later that day. I usally start my topics with what i did on what I thought was important and or funny. Asking questions are good to.
Reply:music
Reply:Talk about something interesting that happened, such as a nonsport event, or something that happened on the news that caught your interest. Talk about things happening at home or at work, or something interesting for sale. There are millions of conversations you can use, just start with the first thing that pops in your head. Works for me all the time.
Reply:i think talking about something like a sport or some artists of songs.but never talk about ex gfs or ex wives cause that's not a great topic at all!
Reply:Hi, I often talk about books. They always get me off to a great start. Or you compliment the person on a peice of jewlery they are wearing. I mostly use books. See a person reading one? Ask them if its a good book!
Reply:Music, TV, movies, books... how about asking what they did yesterday, last night, etc?


I am 23 yrs old and I have never dated and refuse to hang out with my friends..I find it satisfying just......

I have never dated or had a boyfriend and I do have some friends..actually I have 3 friends which I do talk to when I am obligated to. All my life, I find it satisfying just staying alone and being by myself.





It seems that whenever I am with other people, I feel very uncomfortable and I don't feel that I can be myself without being looked down upon.





I do everything by myself, Go shopping, movies, bars etc.....





I had a boy that I was talking (never dated, just talked on the phone) to but he got annoyed because I wasn't paying any attention to him and that I indulge in myself too much..he really hurt my feelings because he said that no one wants someone that like to stay to themselves.





I am the oldest of 3 siblings, so I don't think that is the issue. I don't think I came from a sheltered family. And whats odd is that I am Libra..Libra's are social butterflies, but I am the opposite....





Is this lifestyle normal?

I am 23 yrs old and I have never dated and refuse to hang out with my friends..I find it satisfying just......
sound like to me you lack self confident and I don't see any thing wrong with it. There are times I don't want to be bother and go places alone as well.


I am 23 yrs old and I have never dated and refuse to hang out with my friends..I find it satisfying just......

I have never dated or had a boyfriend and I do have some friends..actually I have 3 friends which I do talk to when I am obligated to. All my life, I find it satisfying just staying alone and being by myself.





It seems that whenever I am with other people, I feel very uncomfortable and I don't feel that I can be myself without being looked down upon.





I do everything by myself, Go shopping, movies, bars etc.....





I had a boy that I was talking (never dated, just talked on the phone) to but he got annoyed because I wasn't paying any attention to him and that I indulge in myself too much..he really hurt my feelings because he said that no one wants someone that like to stay to themselves.





I am the oldest of 3 siblings, so I don't think that is the issue. I don't think I came from a sheltered family. And whats odd is that I am Libra..Libra's are social butterflies, but I am the opposite....

I am 23 yrs old and I have never dated and refuse to hang out with my friends..I find it satisfying just......
first of all this stuff about star signs is a load of rubbish. do you really believe that the billions of people in the world can be crammed into 12 boxes!!!?? People born in the Libra timeframe range over the whole spectrum from those who are the most dangerous of psychopaths to those who are as close to saints as human beings can get. There are social butterflies born on every day of the year and there are also sensitive, private people born every day of the year.





Your lack of confidence is experienced by a very large part of humankind. Adults generally seem to grow into more of a "self core" than young people have. That means that adults are not as sensitive to social pressures as kids are...they are more solid in their self-belief.





Well the good news is that you are already showing signs of maturity (being self-sufficient enough to do things by yourself).





You are sensitive to criticism (probably are too hard on yourself in many things...set your expectations really high) but that is not a real weakness...it makes you more sensitive to the feelings of others. You may even decide to go into the helping professions and make use of this skill.





Enjoy your independence....do not compromise and go for boys who are too weak to live with your strength....ideally you will find a partner who allows you some breathing space to do things on your own and also needs some time to himself, on occasion.





There are thousands of people out there like you, who are looking for well-meaning, loyal friends...when you meet them you will find the most fulfilling of relationships....based on trust and generosity.
Reply:i'm 31 and i have the same simptoms as you


i enjoy too doing all my myself


i think many people are like you, you are unique and fell good with yourself


why should we go along with the crowd?


i am sure that at some point you will find a partner to see how wondeful you are


i am sorry for the guy who hurted you, he didn't deserve you


I am Libra too, Libras are balanced and moderate and like peace,
Reply:some people are quiet some don't shut up. some people are loners some can't stand being alone. some like pie others like cake. who you are and how you are is what makes you you. if you're happy thats what really matters.
Reply:It's normal. It's ok to prefer being to yourself I'm sure more ppl than you think do. You just aren't social (I'm not either lol).
Reply:Just be yourself,quit worrying about what others think of you!
Reply:its normal, you just got stuck in the egocentric stage of human development
Reply:its normal just take your time and try to branch out.
Reply:Possible anxiety issues? why dont you like to be social?
Reply:first you date . in dating no harm. then you decide
Reply:Well it doesnt matter if its normal. To some people you might be normal but to a lot you are not. What you should be asking of yourself is... Is this working for me? Is it getting me what I want out of life? and then perhaps ask yourself and be as honest with yourself as you can be... Why am I like this? Why do I live like this and what is my expectation when I put people off? You may find that putting people off makes the weakest come forward towards you which is a nice feeling. You may feel that to be outgoing puts you in the opposite stance, that you could get rejected and so it may be that you fear the rejection of being social. If that is the case and your current way of being is not getting you the results you desire then I would suggest giving yourself new suggestions when you feel inclined to engage in this put people off behavior. New suggestions might sound something like... It really doesnt make me cool, just wierd. It only makes the desperate come forward or stay around.. the quality people dont have to put up with it. If I am outgoing or call this person and let them get close I could get hurt but it is a risk I have to take. I do not think it is going to work well in your relationships with men as you have experienced. I do believe you are beginning to question whether this works for you as you have bothered to ask the question. Good luck. Changing is scary but I know you can make whatever changes you want to and do well.
Reply:If you are happy and contented with this lifestyle, it is totally up to you.


No-one has the right to make you feel inferior for never having dated and if you prefer to live as you are now, then good for you.....you are doing what YOU prefer and what makes YOU happy and that's what matters.


Things in our life change like the ebb and flow of the tides and the seas - so even though you feel this way now, in years to come you may feel totally different and want to settle down and that would be okay too.
Reply:Do you think that you may have Social Anxiety Disorder? Many people go throught their lives thinking that their behavior is just a "personality trait" when actually it's a disorder they've been suffering from since childhood or adolesence. If you feel this may be your case, try to get in to see a Psychiatrist. Because if this is something that you want to change, it is possible. On the other hand, if you are comfortable with yourself and your life, and you feel that your daily functioning is not imparied by this, then there is nothing wrong with that. It just depends on what you want and how you feel... Hope this helped. ^_^


I want to go on vacation, but can not find the option to advise friends??

CAN'T FIND THE options BUTTON TO GET TO VACATION SO I CAN TELL FRIENDS I AM GONE

I want to go on vacation, but can not find the option to advise friends??
Go to your yahoo mail, then click options( options should be on your immediate right hand side; it's beside "mail for mobile.")If you are using yahoo mail beta, it's in the same area. Once you click options, look on your right hand side, and scroll down a little bit, you should see "vacation response" It should be between "signature response" and "announce email address"

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How do you make people see the real me so I can have more friends and find love without changing me?

I have trouble making friends and find love. People I think don't trust me because I'm nice, or they think because I don't joke around that I'm robot. How can I be me but gain more friendship and find someone that love me for me.

How do you make people see the real me so I can have more friends and find love without changing me?
The real answer is to truly love and respect yourself. It is your own healthy self-image and self-respect that will draw others to you--decent people who will not take advantage of you or disrespect you.
Reply:Finding people that will love you for who you are isn't so much a question of what you're doing wrong as it is who you associate with. You can't make anybody do anything--even if you hold a gun to someone's head and say "Do this or die!" it's still their choice. The best you can do is examine the kinds of people you associate with, and change that if necessary. It's good you desire to stay strong in your convictions and remian true to yourself--in this world of facetious idealogy, that's a quality many are lacking. Finding others who share your beliefs and desires is a good place to start, because people find it easier to accept someone when they more closely resemble the man (or woman) in the mirror.





In all seriousness, I'd suggest trying a dating site. Being able to scrutinze an individual before ever meeting them is a great boon to the shy.
Reply:It will come in time, if your personality is like you say. It took me ages, as im normally quiet, but i like being a good person. Dont change, and the right people will come to you, it will just take time my friend. 2 years in my case haha
Reply:Why don't you joke around? Don't you have a sense of humor?


I'm not putting you down, It just sounds strange that you don't joke around. It is good that you are a nice person. People like to laugh and joke around. Some more that others. What makes you laugh? You need to find people that have the same interests as you. Meet as many people as you can and just be yourself.
Reply:Stop caring what other people think and just be you. You might find that people are attracted to that.
Reply:People have to accept you for the person you are. If they cannot, then they are worth being your friend. If you are a nice guy as you say - then people just have to see that for themself and choose to want to build a friendship with you. On the other hand, why don't you invite someone out for a juice or a movie - try and build a friendship with one person for now - and then it will be easier to branch out to others. At times, people want to have friends, but they are not willing to go out and start a friendship. No one will walk up to you and ask if they can be your friend....make the first friendship gesture - see how it goes :)
Reply:hi.... I'm sure you are a good and nice person ... not joking around doesn't mean that you are a robot, it means that you are a good and reasonable person.... who doesn't see you as reasonable, nice and great person, is the one with a problem


you just be who you are and deal with people with more confidence, show them who you really are


Good Luck
Reply:don't try anything for friends just try to do your work and help every one.
Reply:You can start by putting a real picture of you on your Avatar.
Reply:hey dont care abt wat others think %26amp; dont try to change ur self fr them jus bcause ur that way doesnt mean u cant hv freindz %26amp; that the world will stop
Reply:just either be yourself or change your hairdo so some1 will notice(maybe cut it or spray it green!)
Reply:Get to know yourself first. You can't expect people to like you or even know you if you don't have a strong sense of who you are. Don't try to get others to like you, like and respect yourself and people will sense that about you and be drawn to who you are naturally.
Reply:Lie, ...alot! lol jk





or do the Opposite, like George Costanza!!!


If your life is the complete opposite of everything you want it to be... you need to do the opposite!


"If every instinct you have is wrong, then the opposite would have to be right."





when you feel like doing something, do the opposite.


when u talk to people and you want to say something to them... say the opposite of what you mean.


i dont know if it works, but it couldnt hurt to try it!
Reply:the best thing is to be yourself. find something that your good at, and that'll attract a lot of people. or go out and find someone with the same interest
Reply:This might sound silly, but take yourself out. Take yourself on a date to do the things that you would most like to do. Take yourself on a picnic outing or the theater or a delicious restaurant.


And make a practice of it, of doing the things that excite you most, and make you happiest. There are places that people congregate based on their interests. If you are doing something that makes you happy, and you meet someone else doing the same thing and it makes them happy- you have something in common. Finding common ground between ourselves and others is the first step to building relationships. Be around those who make you feel good or support your feelings of goodness.
Reply:Go streaking during homecoming on a big college campus. You'll get a whole lot of friends and a whole lot of love.
Reply:I am pretty sure that there are people that you joke around with. There are a group of people that you will do that with and a group that you will not. So no matter how hard you try to make people like you there are just going to be some who just will not no matter how nice you are to them. And if you find yourself trying to make someone like you it is not worth it. You be yourslf, don't try to change for anyone, then when you do that you send out a false interpretation of whom you are. I bet you wouldn't want begin a relationship with anyone based on a lie as to who that person is. So don't try it. It will not work, and will play negatively on you in the future. Just be patient about love, don't rush it. Love will come. Just remember to be you at all times.
Reply:join a circus.
Reply:sounds like you need someone equally as dull and boring as yourself





good luck.
Reply:Maybe what you could do is do things to draw positive attention toward yourself, such as exploiting your talents. Maybe if you find someone else who seems kind of like a drifter, you could become friends with them. Thats what I did and then you could enter their circle of friends. Good luck!
Reply:just be wat u r!! be honest n straight abt ur feeling..u don't have to be unnatural so the ppl can like u..if they like u they will except u the way u r!!
Reply:You need to be around different ppl, just be urself thats all u really can do ;)
Reply:If no one is accepting you for who you really are, then move on until you find the one who does. That will be your true friend.
Reply:To make a friend, you've got to be a friend. Don't wait for others to like you. Go up to people, talk to them. You can still be nice, but try not to be withdrawn. I think the best way to get to know folks is to ask questions and find something you have in common. Then both of you have something to talk about.
Reply:well go 2 sckool without clothes then they wll see the real u lol
Reply:just be patient and be good and the good things get here before you know it . in a perfect world .
Reply:be urself lol


Does anyone know where I can find codes for more than a top 8 friends for myspace?

where can i find codes to add more friends on my top 8 for myspace? and will it take a long time and be hard to do?

Does anyone know where I can find codes for more than a top 8 friends for myspace?
go to : %26gt;%26gt;





http://www.r4wr.com/friends/
Reply:change your top 8 click around youll find it
Reply:http://www.r4wr.com/friends/
Reply:http://www.deltox.com/?page=top16%26amp;id=1





go there!


Iam chinese,majoring in english,teaching eng inchina,where can i find some foreign friends?

iam chinese,majoring in english,teaching eng inchina,where can i find some foreign friends?

Iam chinese,majoring in english,teaching eng inchina,where can i find some foreign friends?
If you are a woman look no further friend. You can sometimes find friends in chat rooms but it is not always easy. I have some wonderful chinese on line friends who are genuine and lovely ladies. One lady in particular likes to learn english so I edit her letters for her to help her learn. Sometimes, not often, we talk online. It may take time but finding foreign friends on line might work. by the way they now I am married so it is not for romance that these friends talk with me Good luck
Reply:You can try search for some "language exchange" websites. When you create a profile in these websites, you'll state what language you can teach and what language you wanna learn, and after that you can search for those who wanna learn the language you can speak or vice versa. When you spot someone, you can send them a message and then blah blah blah. It's not only about exchanging language but most people on these websites just wanna make some new friends so it's quite fun though. Some websites I can recommend are xlingo.com, sharedtalk.com, phrasebase.com


Another way to find foreign friends is to play online games ^^ I've made friends with many Chinese-Malaysian by playing games.


I have two friens ,they live in Canada ,i lost their email ,and i want to find my friends wat can i do ?

i am looking for 2 friends ,susan and russ kerr ,how can i find my friends?they lived in Petawawa ,but there change this adresses

I have two friens ,they live in Canada ,i lost their email ,and i want to find my friends wat can i do ?
If they have Yahoo IDs why don't ask for them here?


Try to find their Ids from some other friends of yours.
Reply:see if they r on myspace or hi5 or face book.
Reply:ask a polar bear

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Stay at home mom/child care provider. How do I find local friends?

I'm gong crazy. I need to stay home with baby. However, I need extra income so I babysit. I'm going crazy. I need adult conversation. I don't know anyone in my town to hang out with. How can I find friends that do what I do online?

Stay at home mom/child care provider. How do I find local friends?
I understand exactly what you are going through i to am a stay at home mum and som times i think im going crazy but when i think about it i do it for the good of my family. This is my daughters address i to have o yahoo account i go under louise_bwls@yahoo.com. Fancy a chat email me!!! Do you have msn?
Reply:Search yahoo groups for mothers groups in your city...most have them
Reply:if you can't find a stay at home moms chat room, make one!!


Is there a certain way to find out if a girl you are friends with for 4yrs,like you?

Is there a certain way to find out if a girl you are friends with for 4yrs now, like you but might be afraid to say it or does every girl have their own way in showing that they like you?

Is there a certain way to find out if a girl you are friends with for 4yrs,like you?
I would say have their own way in showing it. But most guys don't necessarily pick up on the signs. Best way to go about it is asking her out right, I mean you guys have been friends for 4 years now, she should be comfortable enough to just fess up to it or not.
Reply:There is no way to say.
Reply:yeah, just ask her or one of her friends
Reply:If you've been friends for 4 years, I would just come out and ask her. I'm sure she would be honest with you and then you two can go from there.
Reply:Uh, she must like you. Youre friends arent you? (darrrr)


Where can u go to find a decent guy. When you dont have friends that go out to clubs and things?

I was just interested in some places that people would suggest me to go, to find a decent guy, when my friends dont like going out to clubs and pubs much. Most guys at pubs and clubs are just idiots.

Where can u go to find a decent guy. When you dont have friends that go out to clubs and things?
What about coffee shops, gyms, markets, even libraries!





Go where there are people who are interested in the same things as you.
Reply:ih a hospital, police station or superstore
Reply:Most places, where the main intent is to shove alchohol down your throat, should be avoided. The nicest people generally won't be found there. :-)
Reply:well you are definitely right about the guys in pubs and clubs they are there only for one thing. theres a lot of places that you can meet a decent guy for example a library or even church. but just becareful guys are guys
Reply:Why not drop me an e mail maybe i can help you ???
Reply:Depends on what pubs and clubs you go to...








ie chav places are full of idiots...








But the alternative scenes





Ie metal, goth, rave, etc are mostly populated by smart , deep often creative types who have no interest in acting hard, many hardly drink but are into the music.








Aussie/kiwi backpacker places are often fun and geared to getting people to pair up but again no attiude.








Failing that...





Skate parks, martial arts clubs... how old are you?





Surf clubs, beaches... (girl in bikinis can't go wrong... just as a guy to rub on sun lotion.





courses.





Dance classes.





etc
Reply:right here
Reply:I'm right there with you. I'm not really into the club scene anymore and my friends are all married or just older and established. I met some girls over the weekend at the mall and sometimes I'll run into someone at the bookstore. Grocery market is good place too.





Honestly though, its hard to meet other "boring" people. I like being boring so I'd hope we aren't alone in this endeavor.
Reply:i agree with you. most clubs are very loud and it is often difficult to meet anyone. if you do meet someone in a club often they are after nothing more than a one night stand, if you are lucky you could get a week. some people do like that though, but i would say that is just sick. I am a strong christian and i would say that one should really wait for the one you are going to marry to come along. i have had girlfriends before but i have realised that it is actually a waste of time having intimate girlfriends without knowing for sure if she is the one, i mean you leave a part of yourself with that person and it is really difficult to get back. to answer your question i would say at a church is the ideal place to make friends and then pick the one you like the most.


I'm thinking of started a blues band a few of my friends. Should we make up our own music or just find music?

I play the saxophone and two of my friends both play electric guitar. I think we should find a drummer but i don't know if it will work out with us making up our blues or playing blue from a book or something. How should I do this?

I'm thinking of started a blues band a few of my friends. Should we make up our own music or just find music?
Both.





Don't even try to be a blues band without listening to the greats ... a lot. Cover whatever songs of theirs you choose, and after a while, start writing your own songs.





Never mind books. Once you learn how to play blues, you don't need them.
Reply:Start with covering blues artists. Muddy Waters, Howlin' Wolf,


Johnny Winter, SRV, Allman Brothers Band, and many more come to mind. After your group gets the feel for playing together, then you can start collaborating on original songs.





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Reply:start with cover charts and try to add your own twist to them if you can. if you plan to make cd's and such, i would suggest putting your own music on it, it costs money to cover someone elses music on a album.





-jazz
Reply:If you or one of your friends has the ability to make up quality songs (more than just a blues progression), then make them up. I don't think it ever hurts to study the masters of the form as an early start either.
Reply:If you just find music wouldn't you be just a "cover band".


Good luck in finding a drummer!
Reply:For starters stick with making cover songs..that way you kinda get into the rhythm of it all and find what your strengths and weaknesses are. In the mean time go ahead and start writing your own music. Have fun with it. Playing the blues is is like fresh air now 'n days.

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I feel so lost everywhere...why can't i find my true friends?

i'm a freshman in hs. i'm rly shy and quiet but i push myself to be social. i just can't seem to find my real friends. i don't feel accepted anywhere and i feel rushed. i saw how my older sister grew...how she was a "nerd" my age and grew up to become really smart AND cool when she started becoming a junior. sorry, i sound stereotypical...anyway, i talk to everyone even if their nerdy or popular or w.e. but everyone already has their own little groups. i also feel like i don't belong in my church youth group. i feel pressured by my sister and feel like how she grew up is my guideline. i'm so crazy at home...why can't i express it? if i did i would fit in so well in my opinion and wouldn't feel so lost.

I feel so lost everywhere...why can't i find my true friends?
Just be yourself. Stop trying so hard. There's nothing wrong with being quiet and shy, you'll grow outta it soon enough. and stop classifying people. maybe if you don't see them that way you'll make friends easier.


if expressing yourself is the problem, then search and you shall find. If you dont know what to say just say whatever comes to mind. you're a teen so they wont kill ya if you say something wrong.
Reply:You have to be yourself and realize that everyone goes through an awkward phase when they are younger. Also, learning to spell might improve your chances of meeting and impressing people of at least passable literacy.
Reply:a lot of times people are lame in high school. think differently..that always grabs attention





smile when you talk to people
Reply:Everyone goes through that phase. It's good that you're putting yourself out there. It's freshman year, you've got plenty of time to make friends. And as far as your sister being a guideline, I know what you mean. Just know that you don't have to be your sister. Express yourself if you feel that it would help you fit in. Just have fun, you're young after all.


How do you find out if a girl likes you without asking her friends or asking her?

i like two girls.... it seems they both like me however im not 100% sure. so i want 2 find out WITHOUT asking her or her friends.

How do you find out if a girl likes you without asking her friends or asking her?
How to tell she likes you:





*She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated.





*Her skin tone becomes red while being around you.





*Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and forth towards you.





*She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.





*She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she's thinking about you and her relating in some way...





*She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.





*She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.





*Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her front teeth....





*She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.





*She puts her fingernail between her teeth.





*She laughs in unison with you.





*She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you.





*Plays with her jewelry, especially with stroking and pulling motions.





*She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you.





*Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile usually indicates interest in you.





*While talking to you, she rests an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out her other hand, palm up.





*In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you.





*While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.





*Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face.





*She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours.





*She rubs her wrists up and down.





Thats pretty much it...





If u ever need anything else feel free to email me @: godsbaby42@yahoo.com





*Much Love* ~God Bless~
Reply:just find out casually from someone you know if she likes you
Reply:sweetheart,


everyone's different, there's no fool-proof guide to figure this out


=) that's life!


but, if your trying to figure it out, the best advice i can give u is just;


brush against her arm (not in an offhanded way) and see how she responds, lean in a little closer than necessary when you ask a question, little stuff like that that encourages physical contact


is she shy about it? excited? then she probably likes u


is she weirded out? doesn't react at all? stiff? probably not


best of luck!
Reply:her reactions
Reply:see if there's any signs they give you. like: winking, smiling, looking, checking you out when she thinks no ones looking.





or maybe you can write her a mysterous letter sayying: do you like______(your name).
Reply:thats hard enough


I need a site where i can find fun stuff to email my friends?

i recieve some real fun pps from my friends %26amp; i need to find similar things to email them

I need a site where i can find fun stuff to email my friends?
You can go to http://groups.yahoo.com/ and do a Little search and find a group that you like...
Reply:try www.facebook.com
Reply:Hi.. if all you are talking about is fun neat things for them to see and maybe interact with. Funny, entertaining things... then there are some out there. One is http://www.albinoblacksheep.com/, I know there are more out there, I just can't think of anything right off hand. Hope this helps.


Did you find the peace after came out with your parents or friends or anybody else?

I came out with my mom,aunt and grandmother.. these last ones I dont know if they accept. and my mom doesnt accept me.., she doesnt like the idea to see with a man.. and the rest of my family dont know and my friends suspect.. I act effeminate.. but I am into many manly things.. in my country mexico.. effeminate is a sign of being gay.. even I dont want to label myself.. I would like to find a manly man.. but I dont find.. I live in a small town.. returning to my peace. I have anxiety and I dont find the peace yet.. after 6 months of coming out.. so I still looking for it.. and you?

Did you find the peace after came out with your parents or friends or anybody else?
I did not immediately find a sense of peace, but I did find a sense of freedom. I no longer had to hide this part of myself, and no longer feared anyone else finding out. This freedom to be who I was gradually led to a feeling of peace.
Reply:Ugh. No. I mean sure, it felt really good to get it off my chest. I had a hard time with telling my mum and still have a hard time talking to her about my boyfriend. She told me recently that she and my dad both thing being gay is wrong. But, I can't help it.


So to answer your question, I didn't find the inner peace with my family, but I did with my friends. They're all really cool and very accepting.
Reply:No really. Coming out doesn't solve all your problems. However things eventually got better little by little.

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IS ther a LIK way on YAhoo 2 LIK find out MY frieNDS E-mAiL addRESs cUz im nOT fiNDiNg a waY 2 cONtakT thEM!?

i need 2 find out quik! plez help me! i have a lot of friends tat i need 2 find on yahoo n evn som tat arnt on yahoo (i tink ) so lik wat i can do is tell the names of them and then i need 2 get their e-mail fast! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

IS ther a LIK way on YAhoo 2 LIK find out MY frieNDS E-mAiL addRESs cUz im nOT fiNDiNg a waY 2 cONtakT thEM!?
I am amazed that you can sound immature on the internet.
Reply:its called a privacy policy, just call them !!!!!
Reply:wow.





how about your go to the computer section and ask someone how to freakin type.


Where can I find free episodes of Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends online?

Does anyone know any free websites where I can find free (and all) showings of Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends? My sister is going crazy (which is making me crazy, too!)!

Where can I find free episodes of Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends online?
well i tried youtube.com but only some episodes are in there including the awesome episode in which Cheese is introduced, "Mac Daddy". The episodes on YouTube are in 2 or 3 parts.
Reply:youtube?
Reply:go to CartoonNetwork.com and click on fosters home for imaginary friends and you should find it from there!
Reply:YOu can go to cartoonetwork.com but there only a couple of episodes there, IM looking for the episodes too email me if yo u find out!


How do you find people on yahoo. im tryen to find my friends?

can i even find my friends on here

How do you find people on yahoo. im tryen to find my friends?
um i think i can help...just open up yahoo messenger and click on contacts then: 1) if you know the addresses of your friends just click "invite people to join" ( works for people not already on yahoo or 2) click "import contacts" to have existing friends added manually...hope this helps


Problems opening Eliahu Masinger and I did not find (Ids) for my friends but when one Online me a slogan?

Problems opening Eliahu Masinger and I did not find (Ids) for my friends but when one Online me a slogan

Problems opening Eliahu Masinger and I did not find (Ids) for my friends but when one Online me a slogan?
uhhhh, where are you from..dont they have yahoo in your own language

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Is there a way to find out who has you on their Top Friends list on MySpace?

Hey, I was wondering, is there a way to search for who has me on their Top Friends list (now you can have up to 24 through MySpace and up to 40 with a friendspace generator) without clicking on everyone in my friendspace to find out? If not, no big deal, I just wanted to know and I have too many people to feel compelled to click on all of their names right now just to find that out. Thanks.

Is there a way to find out who has you on their Top Friends list on MySpace?
looking at each one is the only way you could find out. I know it sucks but there is no other way right now.
Reply:ya ask around
Reply:too many friends ? that's sad
Reply:Look at each of your friends page


Need 2 find quote f/sex & the city when Carrie flips @ Bergers friends b/c he broke up w/ her on a post-it?

I'm trying to find the exact quote f/ Sex %26amp; The City when Carrie freaks out to Berger's friends when he dumps her on a post-it. I need the exact word for word quote. I know it ends w/ some thing like "and it doesn't involve a post-it!"

Need 2 find quote f/sex %26amp; the city when Carrie flips @ Bergers friends b/c he broke up w/ her on a post-it?
You can go to http://www.twiztv.com and they should have it.


Does it happen to anybody else, when you wish to make some friends, but cant find anybody at least half-smart?

I am not picky, but seems everytime i meet some people , all they talk about is about how not to get pregnant, who slept with who, how to get guys, and etc. I tried to talk about something else, like traveling, fashion, arts or hobbies, but nobody could keep that conversations.


Where to find friends who would like to talk about anything but pregnancy, secrets of lucky datings, different guys, how not to get pregnant?

Does it happen to anybody else, when you wish to make some friends, but cant find anybody at least half-smart?
Definately, I hate it. Even the people who aren`t cool at all, like think I`m really weird. Like I thought they`d be ok to hang out with! (That`s y their not cool in the first place!)





They all think you`re weird all the time. I hate this myself, but then you have to somehow make yourself known. Or just be happy with no friends but everyone should at least have one good friend.





I`m srry, I`m not sure if that was much help, but just be yourself and you`ll be fine
Reply:You must be associating with a very small group of people. Are you in prison, a mental institution or are you just a DOLT?


Does it happen to anybody else, when you wish to make some friends, but cant find anybody at least half-smart?

I am not picky, but seems everytime i meet some people , all they talk about is about how not to get pregnant, who slept with who, how to get guys, and etc. I tried to talk about something else, like traveling, fashion, arts or hobbies, but nobody could keep that conversations.


Where to find friends who would like to talk about anything but pregnancy, secrets of lucky datings, different guys, how not to get pregnant?

Does it happen to anybody else, when you wish to make some friends, but cant find anybody at least half-smart?
Yes, it can be frustrating when you feel surrounded by superficial or shallow thinkers. That is your clue to change your routine, environment, and even associates... as you mature, your priorities change.





A good place to start your search is in any "higher education" venue because intelligent people value their educations. Bypass those going to class because they "have to"... seek out the ones that are intent on their studies for self enrichment.





Whether it is at college or private classes, follow your interests to find people of like mind... then you will have common ground to start conversations and establish friendships with.





Participate in the sports you like; attend clinics, join in tournaments, or just be a spectator to meet others of like interest. Learn a new skill like sailing, horseback riding, rock climbing, tennis, flying, etc.





Some people with "refined tastes" are generally deeper thinkers. Consider fashion, art, horse or dog shows, museums and botanical gardens, gourmet dining, food, and wine tastings, galleries, local political, community or social groups and clubs. Volunteer organizations also tend to attract quality people to their ranks. Join, actively participate, don't just visit.





No matter how "good" any person is, they can always "better" themselves. The ignorant remain stagnant, while the dynamic evolve. Practice tolerance, be realistic, and have fun!
Reply:You're going to have to leave Russia, or Idaho - whichever Moscow you are in.








Then your chances of finding an intelligent guy will go way up.
Reply:I don't know how old you are...but the college crowd in the Northeast US is what you're looking for...there are still idiots, but it's a lot less attractive to be a complete dumbsh*t up there; especially in Boston and NY. Even really pretty blonde girls in NY atleast try to say something intelligent...
Reply:Try not going to bars to meet them.
Reply:Anyone else find it ironic that this poster is looking for intelligent "friends" in the Marriage and Divorce section ?
Reply:I know exactly what you mean. It's really annoying when your friends talk about their b/f's or g/f's all of the time. If you find friends that talk about other topics that would be great. Please let me know where to find them because thats all I hear about also. It gets very annoying.
Reply:Go to a book store and stand next to the travel section...........
Reply:yes, I don't know how much it has to do with intelligence, it seems sometimes this is all women can think about in general. it is becoming increasingly hard, in men %26amp; women, to find inteligent conversation in my opinion
Reply:HaHa......you sound like a younger version of me! If I could go back in time, I would engage in classes at community centres, book club, night class etc...and target your specific interests. Hey, atleast the other people in the class would be there for the same reason!!


I think it's ok to have a variety of friends that have a great diversity of interests. Friends, even the ones that just talk "guys" can still be a loyal friend in times of need BUT I think you just need to expand where YOU hang out. It's nice to keep some friends for going out and having fun and some others to sit a discuss a topic of interest with etc...
Reply:I love to talk about religion.
Reply:maybe u should hang out in places other than loser ville





oh u are saying the USA is "loser ville" then go home and kiss Putins byceps and talk about fashion.
Reply:When you find out please let me know. Most of the time I hear the women around here talk about how to get with one of the soldiers (we live close to post) whether they are married or not then they see the dog tags around my neck and my wedding bands and feel really stupid.
Reply:I feel the same way
Reply:I'll be your friend and I promise we'll have interesting conversations. I'm a good story teller too!
Reply:Awww... I find it hard to find friends that I share common interests with as well, though I have a few. All i can say is it takes time. be open to new aquaintences and be happy :D
Reply:Women are molded by television to act a certain way.....Sex in the City becomes their reality.


Women in europe tend to be more sophisticated partly because the educational system there broadens their outlook instead of narrowing it down like here in US. Of course, this affects guys as well.
Reply:You have found the secret to long-lasting relationships. Knowledge, wisdom, empathy, courage and COMMUNICATION!


Try going back to college. This is where you will find the ones trying to be smart.
Reply:i can t find smart people neither,and i just feel like evrybody is so imature!


i have no friends,evrytime i talk to a girl i get so bored,it s always about a guy,and sex,and it s boring.


i wnt to make friends,but i feel like am in a diferent level,i don t know.


hey why don t we became friends we can try at least by chating .
Reply:I don't have that problem because I live in the middle of Silicon Valley. Everyone is educated. I love it!!
Reply:The more I get to know people, the better I like my dog.
Reply:Ive given up at anyone being as bright as me.
Reply:Try some 1 older??That has some other interest%26gt;
Reply:Half-smart, eh? That seems like it shouldn't be hard for you at all. I REALLY mean that.
Reply:My dear, the first place to start would be...SOMEWHERE OTHER THAN WHERE YOU ARE LOOKING NOW! If you keep encountering the same type of people the problem is not with them, it is with you. You are the one who must change. Join some new clubs, get a new hobby, start shopping in different stores, stop looking for men in the same bars, take some new university classes in a subject you enjoy just for the fun, take a vacation by yourself to the place on earth you think is the best place to go (you just might find him there), go to a new church (if you are religious). . .





Do something different.
Reply:Well maybe you are looking in all the wrong places!

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I find myself NOT wanting to hang out with my semi-close friends?

like i dont want to go out with them


why do i feel like this?


ive been saying i have other stuff to do for the past 3 days and been saying no for the past 3 days.


i hate saying no and they are my only friends fd'skhofhda


but i just find myself not feeling like going.

I find myself NOT wanting to hang out with my semi-close friends?
Omg.. im in the same position!! But even worse.. it has been weeks!! and i hate making excuses too.. but I have been doing so all along.





I'm not sure why it's like that with you.. but I guess possible reasons could be you have something in your mind. Perhaps you're guilty of something you did to your close friends, or maybe they will be leaving soon, so you're just sad. Or maybe you're in love with someone.. I'm not sure.. but it's definitely a problem!! If you don't know what's bothering you, you better find out.





For me.. I have a number of reasons. I like a guy a lot. Stress from school work. Family problems. And I'm starting to feel like I can't manage things well which has greatly hurt my confidence. This is why I mainly am trying to avoid my friends. Do you have similar reasons as I do? Do let me know..


Thursday, August 19, 2010

On Yahoo messenger, I used to be able to find what room my friends were in,?

Can i find what room my friends are in on messenger?


at one time I used to be able to just join the room they were in


is this still possible?


thanks

On Yahoo messenger, I used to be able to find what room my friends were in,?
The new messenger 8.1 does not have that feature anymore.


Okay what should i do to find out if one of my friends is lying to me or not?

Okay i always feel like one of my friends is a liar and tells all these lies that i don't think is true. She tells these lies about people and i dont know if they are true or not....what should i do to find out if she is lying or not..cuz i really want to know.

Okay what should i do to find out if one of my friends is lying to me or not?
Well, without directly asking someone you think she has lied about, then you could say something like "I am so sorry to hear about what happened" or "I heard about what happened, are you okay?". Then if there was truth to what your friend said, the other person will usually more or less fill you in. If they say "what are you talking about??" then you know you were most likely told a lie. Then you can back out by saying "I heard that such and such happened, must be bad information".


Then dump the liar. I was married to one for years, it only gets worse, and can get you into hot water too. I don't need or want liars for friends, and you don't need friends like that either.
Reply:This happend to me..just don't be friends with her anymore...
Reply:Confront the people that you think she is lieing about. It's best not to be sneaky.





Failing that you can always quiz her (the person you think is lieing to you) about details of the rumors she spreads to see if she is inconsistent or messes up somewhere.
Reply:ask her this


''did you see them?'' ''then how do you know its true??''
Reply:Look at her strait at the eyes.
Reply:ask the Ouija board
Reply:Sounds like hateration on her part
Reply:lol@dominia, um anyway, just confront your "LIAR" friend, ask her why is she in other peoples business so much and tell her that you think that shes is lying just to start rumors about people.....if she gets all defensive about it, the ***** is lying!!!!
Reply:If you don't trust her, it doesn't sound like you're really friends. If that's the case, then you don't need to care.


Does anyone know where i can find poems about losing your best friends?

i just lost 4 of my best friends, in a hugh fight, and i want a poem about sometyhing like that, does anyone know of a place i can find poems, or a poem like thatt??? pleasee?

Does anyone know where i can find poems about losing your best friends?
A good place to look would be to look through Chicken Noodle Soup Books. Go to your library of even look online for these books, and you will find many poems and stories about the subject matter your interested in.





Hope this helps.
Reply:POETRY.COM THAT'S THE BEST
Reply:I am sorry about you losing your friends dear...


Be positive and everything is just going to turn out fine, alright?





My Best Friend





Once was here


now is gone


I will always


love forever


the laughs


the tears


the smiles


without her


my life has no direction


no ups nor downs


no smiles or frowns


I miss her


I cry


I see her


I lie


what ever went wrong


I can mend


I will always


love forever


my very best friend








Here is one more:-








We used to be best friends


We used to hang out


But now all we do is cry,and shout


We told each other secrets and swears


We used to hug and love and give each other bears


but one day you just split.


We didn't talk,we didn't tell each other anything


You left me in the dust,along with a broken heart


Why did we split apart?


You don't know how each night I cry


and how many times I just want to die.


I threw away the pictures,I threw away the bears


and all of the words that we shared.


I threw away all the notes,and "Best Friends For Life"


You saved me so many times from cutting myself with a knife


But now it's all over,the love yous and hate you's,


You were my best friend,I don't know what went wrong.


But my sister,my friend,so long.

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Does anyone know a Joy Amin or Naja Harris. 2 very good highschool friends I'm trying to find?

I lost contact with them years ago. I remember they were both really good friends %26amp; I miss them. I have no idea how to find them.

Does anyone know a Joy Amin or Naja Harris. 2 very good highschool friends I'm trying to find?
no idea sorry
Reply:I think I might. Where is she from? Maryland? Does she have a young son? Report It



Where can I find new hot video , picture or passage to email for friends?

Sometimes friends used to forward emails but I have nothing to reply.I googled it sometimes but I couldnt find hot one .Can you please tell me where should I look for?Thanks

Where can I find new hot video , picture or passage to email for friends?
I've made a search in google for "cool pictures" and i got:


http://damncoolpics.blogspot.com/...





Just save the pictures you want and attach them to your mail

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How do I find out if a girl likes but in a way so that we can still be friends if she doesnt?

How do I find out if this girl likes me and if i should ask her out with out being creepy/werid so that if she says no she doesn't see me as that weird kid and that we can still be friends. I don't know her friends that well and my friends aren't the kind of people who would ask her for me

How do I find out if a girl likes but in a way so that we can still be friends if she doesnt?
Just be like hey you want to hang out sometime? There is going to be two answers: Sure or I don't think my boyfriend would like that. If you go out and you don't get the vibe that she likes you just keep it casual. If she just says she has a boyfriend just be like, oh he might not like that too much and just move on to another topic. That way you feel it out and no harm no foul.
Reply:good but difficult question.. I guess is impossible.. Expose your feelings to her.. kiss her... If she rejects you then only with time you will know if u can continue to being friends. ;)
Reply:Write her a note from a secret crush and leave it in her locker or on her desk in school and c if she's interested in anyone right now


Are there any sites out there where i can find a long lost friends e mail address(if they have one) or just fi

are there any free sites out there where i can find a long lost friends e mail address (if they have one) or possibly just trace them anyway.ive been on a few which say they are free but as you start to register they all want your details as well as your cash.any help at all would be appreciated

Are there any sites out there where i can find a long lost friends e mail address(if they have one) or just fi
Friends reunited used to be free to join but you had to pay a few quid to contact people.


Myspace is totally free although finding old friends is still rather hit and miss.


There are people search sites like 192.com which asks for money to get full details but you might get a clue as to where else to start looking.


The electoral roll is still free to look up but I think you have to visit the library or something and that might cost a bus fare.


Why are you so determined not to pay for anything?


You pay for food and clothes and stuff like that but you don't want to pay for information. The most valuable commodity of all.
Reply:try and google it, sometimes it works
Reply:i hope not , thats a bit worrying if you can xx
Reply:join Orkut or Hi5


U may meet ur friends there!
Reply:go to the free version of webdetective..
Reply:No site if it is conscientious will give out email addresses. Why should they be free anyway how do you think such sites fund the cost of running them?
Reply:192.com might be useful but it isn't free.


Anyone have a lead or link how to find old high school friends?

Can anyone offer help and links on ways to find old high school or college friends/email addresses via internet and databases?

Anyone have a lead or link how to find old high school friends?
ya join facebook everybody is on there my dad found old collage friends here's a link


www.facebook.com good luck finding them :)
Reply:classmates.com is a great site.
Reply:Try http://www.phonenumber-411.com


Get your friend's phone number.


Trying to find the hairstyle Julia Roberts wore in the movie "My best Friends Wedding" where can I find it?

Hey! I'm trying to find pictures of the beautiful hairstyle Julia Roberts wore in the movie "My Best Friends Wedding". It was near the end of the movie, when she's at the wedding in the lavendar dress. Her hair was half up half down in soft curls and it looked beautiful, if anyone could please tell me where I can find a site that has a picture of it, I would tremendously appreciate it. Thanks!!

Trying to find the hairstyle Julia Roberts wore in the movie "My best Friends Wedding" where can I find it?
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