Friday, July 9, 2010

Why can't I find decent friends?

I've been out of high school for a little more than 5 years. From my clique of friends, I was one of the only ones that went to college, however I tried my best to stay in touch with some of them. Now that I'm working, I still find myself pretty busy, but still trying to make the effort to keep in touch with them. I feel like it's starting to be a one-way street. I'll give them a call and they never answer the phone, so I leave them a message just telling them I wanted to catch up. However, it will be at least 1-2 weeks before they even make an effort to respond--and sometimes the response is a 2-sentence email. I'm at the point where I feel like "why do I even bother trying to keep in touch?" Am I doing something wrong?

Why can't I find decent friends?
Instead of focusing on why your friends from high school are acting this way, try focusing on making new ones. Maybe they are jealous because you have done well in life. Whatever the reason, I feel like from what you've said, you've gone above and beyond, so why keep stressing out about it? It's obviously their loss, right?
Reply:There may have been things that they had to do. Not only do you have a life but they do as well. It doesnt mean that they arent your friends or dont want to be bothered with you, they just tend to be busy. I have been on the same path but i got over it. We are grown ups now and we still speak when we see each other but i realized as adults we dont always have the time like we did when we were younger.
Reply:Even though we r like maybe, 7 years apart, i feel the same exact way. But u no what im gonna do? im gonna ask God to send me some good friends. Good influences, and good people to talk to.
Reply:you are being snubbed.. because you are not in the same league as your friends.. seems to me a bunch of loosers.. consider just being on your own.. and finding friends naturally you are a seccess and i bet thease people are in debt no job no future .. cant find a decent man. etc.. face the fact maybee they just dont like you.. and from your description you are forcing yourself on them.. why not go to a dance classs and you will make friends.. how about your college days there must have been someone.. that like what you like.. if you manage to get back with your old friends they will use you borrow money.. ride in your car.. they cant afford one on other things.. or go to a gym where people are trying to better themselves with exercise.. those type of people are the kind you want in your life.. ok gilermo.


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