Ok, I just moved back into the dorm and this girl lives down the hall. I knew her last year, but hardly ever saw her. Now she's in two of my classes and wants to walk to and from classes together. I can't stand her. I don't want to hurt her feelings. It's not that I don't want to be friends with her, I just don't want to see her everyday. I feel like she's invading my personal space. Is there anyway I could tell her to back of without actually her? Any lies I could feed her so I can't walk to class with her? I'm open to anything at this point. I just don't want to tell her the truth, because I really don't have any excuse not to like other than I find her extremely annoying, she never shuts up. I know the truth is best in most situations, but I don't think it will work here.
This girl wants to be friends, but I find her too annoying to always be around her, what should I do?
grab a cell phone and talk on it while walking with her or whenever shes around...pretty soon maybe she'll find you too annoying to be around!
Reply:i know how you feel! it can be soo frustrating! you don't want to hurt her feelings, but you want her to get the message too! tell her you're busy, you're studying, you're doing errands, something. she'll eventually get the idea that you're too busy, or she'll take a hint. good luck!!!
Reply:Tell her that its nice that she talks to you but you need some space. Its not that you don't like her but you have got some work to do and volunteer to take some time to take her out. Some friends don't know they like each other tell them can't stand being apart. She may grow on you so you need to be nice to her and just let her do her thing. If she wants to talk with you maybe she has very little friends. Everyone needs friends so just be nice maybe it will come back in return to you a favor.
Reply:tell her that you don't feel good and you don't want to get her sick. or spray her in the face with pepper spray and run if the first one doesn't work
Reply:if she lives down the hall, it will be really difficult for you. you can try leaving earlier for class, so she can't catch you and walk to class with you. make polite and tactful white lies to get yourself off the hook. after awhile, she will probably get the message. it's okay to feel the way you do. as much as we'd like to be nice, sometimes we just don't mesh well with some people.
Reply:I think you should tell the truth %26amp; say you like to walk to class alone. You use the time to go over your notes.
BUT if you want to 'lie' or not tell the truth, then just put on an Ipod %26amp; pretend you don't see her. If she walks next to you, don't take the headphones off %26amp; only 1/2 answer her questions. Do this 5 days in a row, she'll get the hint.
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