This is a broad generalisation of course, but after a while, I find that people can be divided into those who are (1) fun, sociable, dressy, but unfortunately can also be flaky and superficial (the butterflies) and those who are (2) more toned down, takes a bit longer to know, contribute more, loyal but can also be boring (the bees). I noticed that I tend to get attracted to butterflies in friendships, but the bees are the ones that make good friends in the long run.
Do you find that friends can be broadly divided into the bees and the butterflies?
so true
Reply:Lovely analogy and if you were trying to group them i guess many would fit into one or the other but I feel it may be more of a spectrum in that everyone has more or less of both sides it just depends how much of each
Reply:Yes, generally they can be divided like that, but there can be mixed ones too. I think I'm lucky enough to be best friends with a mix. (reliable but NOT boring)
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