Can someone married have friends of the opposite sex? If so how can find I find her ?

Can men and women be friends? I used to have a couple women friends from work long time ago. We used to hang out, have things in common, swap stories, not tonges and it was enjoyable having lunch together. However they moved or changed jobs. I miss those great times. Lately, I was thinking of meeting new friends but don't know how to go about it. I know I started with a question to see if other have had the same experiences as me and if it's ok to have female friends.

Can someone married have friends of the opposite sex? If so how can find I find her ?
Friends are friends because they care about you, they make you laugh and feel good it don't matter what gender they are, so go out and make FRIENDS
Reply:boy,





I've been married most of my adult life, and I've had more than a few friends of the platonic type with females. Nothing wrong with it, as long as it stays platonic.





That said, sir, I think that there WOULD be a problem if you try to go LOOKING for it. See, friends are just that...it shouldn't matter what gender they are. If you go looking for female friends...well, that's just LOOKING for trouble, in my opinion.





I would concentrate on looking for friends, not male or female, just friends, folks to interact with. If it turns out that she's female, fine. Don't go looking for females.
Reply:Yes.
Reply:If you don't give either of the other spouses reason to doubt your friendship then it shouldn't be a problem, but why whould you leave your spouse at home to go and hang out with someone else. My long-term bf that I have now---all of his friends are woman. But he doen's go hang out with them without me and we have an open relationship-sexual wise.
Reply:nope after u r married no way at alllllllllll
Reply:Why don't you try looking up your old friends? If their husbands answer the phone introduce yourself, tell how you know their wife, let the husband know you'd like to meet him...just don't act all mushy b/c he will make sure you don't get in contact with his wife. It's tough because you sound like it's the old friends you miss. But, if you were really that cool with them, what's the prob w/ finding them. If you're in a good relationship, that's even better. You won't be perceived by the husbands as a threat to the stability of their family.