Why cant i find real friends these days evey one all ways want more then that?

when you ask to be friends they want more then that and if they do say ok we can be friends they dont really mean it because they be wanting to have sex friends dont do friends not real ones anyway

Why cant i find real friends these days evey one all ways want more then that?
I am sorry to be the one to tell you this, but men in your age group, I mean by this 14 to 99, mostly talk to a woman because they want to have sex with her.





There are exceptions, but I mean overall the trend would be if he is calling you on the cell phone its because he wants a friend with benefits or a girlfriend or something like this.





I've had friends like that, "friends", I wanted to go to bed with them, yeah, one girl it was like 7 years of back and forth and flirting and it was always out there,





I shagged her baby, shagged her rotted.





Men are dogs. I'm sorry to break it to you,





the way we operate, I think, and this is general, is we find a woman attractive we try and see if she is intelligent and half way personable and fun to get along with, try and sleep with her, and proceed from there.





I'm sorry, men are dogs. You can find one who might be ideal and all that and have a wonderful relationship with that man, and marry and all that.





If it werent for the mechanism of the dog programming it wouldn't get to that point thou.
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Reply:You can be friends with married men. :) Of course, not all married men are decent, so select cautiously.





I think this concept of being friends is just rare in the US. In Europe, you see men and women being friends just fine. There's more respect between men and women, and people get to know each other well as friends, so if you are not compatible as a couple (just having a relationship without sex), then you remain as friends anyway. Good luck!
Reply:As a guy, I know that if a hot girl wants to be friends with me, I will say ok becuase I assume that after she gets to know me she will start to like me. The reason you want be friends with guys, as opposed to girls, where there is no risk of relationship, is that you like the sexual tension. For you, it is just fun having that extra spark, but for a guy, the sexual tension just keeps building until he has to go for it. its a tough situation though. good luck
Reply:You need to make friends with girls not boys.
Reply:There are people in the world that are desprate, and they have met people that don't just want to be friends, so they expect you to be the same way. But just keep on looking, there are people int he world that want to take it by friendship, not by sex.
Reply:that a really hard question to anwser considering the fact that i have the same problem its not easy being beautiful is it hun well i read one of the anwsers and it said that you should make friends with girls not guys but im bi so i have problems with both and well i have said every thing i have to say so hope it was a little help take it for wat it is love,beth email:scary_gothic_chic@yahoo.com