Friends find me annoying?

i rarely get asked to hang out... only by 2-3 best friends (and rarely). i usually have to ask someone else or just happen to be in a group and end up chilling with them.





so tonight, i decided i was bored so i called a friend and said wanna hang out tonight, he said he was driving around with a few people and that they werent sure what they were doing but he'd call me back when they were..





so a couple hours later i call another guy, it turns out hes with the same group of people i called before, and the conversation was really confusing and they mightve been drunk or something, but they say they couldnt talk and theyd call be back in 30 min...





that never happened. looks like they blew me off. im starting to think im annoying or something.. im quiet... but i can keep a conversation going. i dont get it.

Friends find me annoying?
It's not you, it's your friends. People can be downright pr!cks.
Reply:Maybe they think that you won't enjoy the kind of time that they are.





I'm kind of like that with 2 of my best friends.


I'm a goody goody and they're like the opposite so we won't hang out if they're going to be doing something ungoody goody.





They know that I'm not comfortable being around "bad" stuff so they just respectfully leave me out. But not like your friends are doing.





I think they're just blowing you off.


And you said they were drunk so they might call you back hours later thinking its only been 30 minutes. Lol.
Reply:Yeah this happens to me, but I have found friends that really like me and want to do stuff with me. So that particular group maybe find you annoying, but that doesn't mean that another group of people find you annoying. Maybe they are the ones that have the problem not you. Cheer up, life brings unexpected turns and twists, but turns out good in the end. I'm sure you will get through this fine.
Reply:Trust me. It's not you. Having 2-3 best friends is better than most people (and I'm being honest).





Secondly, if these people were drunk and possibly even driving while under the influence, they aren't people you want to be around anyway. They would put you in danger and you can't want that.





Lastly, you said you were quiet. I applaud you for that. I never was in school and that really hindered my schooling. I managed to make it, but had I listened a little more and talked less I would have had a much easier way.





Good luck and keep your head up! You win in the long run!