How do i find new friends?

Okay you all will think i am crazy and i am sure i will get smarta** remarks but i need help. So far you all have been suportive and helpful with all my other questions. I don't have any friends and it hard me to make new ones. I am a very shy self constions person. Most people scare the hell out of me. Unfortally people on line are mostly liers and out for something. and I said most not all. How do i make friends when people scare me?


I love life, i love having fun, I like a lot of diffenent things. the friends i use to have injoyed my humor but they have all moved on and away. I love to smile and laugh, I am a good person, but i am a little wacky. Most people first opion of me is that i am crazy, but i am a nice person. I am suportive, non judgemental, and I get so excited for everyone and there news. I am a friend cheerleader. I just what the same in return is that to much to ask? I want a Friend.

How do i find new friends?
Everyone needs friends, and you're right, most people are wacky as hell! But you have to get out of your comfort zone and look at meeting people an opportunity to get comfortable outside your comfort zone. (Make sense?). I know it's hard, but you really have to put yourself out there. Your never going to meet a friend if you look at everyone negatively or you think they look at you weird. There is a friend for everyone. You just have to go out there find one. Try going to some hangout's around town and just start up some conversation, the worst that can happen is that you'll be right where you started, with no friends.





Try and see! Good luck!
Reply:wow....


I guess i sort of understand what u mean


Im usually really shy but i got past it somewhat but my theory is be urself if somone can't like u for being urself thats not a friend to have





My friends even though i was dead shy were great friends they liked me for who i was a quite reserved, yet sweet and funny person.......


And the truth is u have to try to reach out a lil' try to get past ur shyness thats what i did....
Reply:well your a cheerleader so im guessing your in highschool . you dont have freinds on the squad?


i dont think i can be much help but if you ever need to talk you can email me.- cassey
Reply:omg u sound exactly like me!





except i used to be rather popular and on top of things but thanks to a "friend" everyone now hates me cos hes been **** stirring! and it doesnt help that yea, like u, in shy, self concious and being ambushed doesnt help!!!





we need to stick 2geva!





good luck!xxx