Do you like your current friends, where can i find like minded people?

Do you like your current bunch of friends?, i have 3 groups of friends i see from time to time, i don't enjoy any of their company, they are all quite boring to me, the first group is my engineering friends from university, they are boring as hell but financially on my level. The second group of friends are some IT guys, they are a bit more fun but still boring as hell. The last group consists of 3 people that could be labelled as misfits\loosers, they are a bit more fun to hang around with, they are not pretentious etc., but they are not very intellectual or financially on the same level as me...





i would describe myself as a slightly intellectual person, a bit cynical, a dark, dry sense of humour, a bit philosophical and solemn, a person with no fixed identity or ego.





I am 25, and don't have any friends i enjoy hanging out with.

Do you like your current friends, where can i find like minded people?
You sound like me. I had friends when I was working at a hospital. We would work the 3-11 shift and then go out to eat or at a bar after work.


Then I had kids and quit working, big mistake. Then my kids were my life for 20 plus years. So as you see, I am up there. My girls are 24 %26amp; 19.


But then I started getting involved in church with a group that a few of us just started, like a book club and we did more talking about other stuff and got to be good friends. That was quite a few years ago and we still hang out, well, if you mean going out for lunch or getting together to watch a movie or make cookies. The are all in the church choir too and finally got me to join and it is really fun, a great bunch of people and I love singing. I actually like them better than my family sometimes. Well, I suppose you didn't want to hear about churchy stuff. But they accepted me for who I was and we are all different.


If you are only 25 is is ok to not have a fixed identity yet because you don't know where your place is in the world at that age. You just have to keep trying new things.
Reply:Very hard my friend.You cant find them, They must be obtain.
Reply:There are few who qualify as the perfect friend and once you find one you have to be careful not to make a martyr of them. No human being is perfect but we all have a side I think you'ld be interested to know if you look at them...not yourself. We're all different. And if you did find someone that's exactly like you...trust me, you won't like him....no offence intended.