How do you find true friends... and how do you know when a friend is using you?

right when I think all of my friends truly love me, and I have great friends... something goes wrong. they completely use me, they're embarrassed to be seen with me, they pretend to like me or something, I really don't know.





like for example ~ one of my friends talks to me about everything when she's alone and tells me that I'm 1 of her awesome friends, but out in public, if I say 'hi' to her or something, she acts like I'm just an acquaintance or something. how do get real friends?





thanks in advance ♥

How do you find true friends... and how do you know when a friend is using you?
Its really hard to find really friends now days. I have alot of friends but only 1 knows everything about me. The thing is dont tell all ur friends personal information about u because they might use it against u. Real friends are the ppl that will always welcome u, ppl that will care for u, give u good suggestions, back u up in any fight, give u there keys to their car in case of emergancy well some will. I really hope this kinda helps u sorry for my spelling.
Reply:true friendz will come soon u can neva tell untill they r w/u no matter wat u do. u can tell when a friend is useing u when he/she only asks u 4 things he/she wants n if he/she neva wants 2 help u out w/anything after all u did 4 him/her
Reply:I could never find "true" friends during my youth. The friends that I had, turned to be the same as your friends. Working was my out. I worked from the time I was 14, outside of the home. One day, one of the girls that I was being deceitful to opened my eyes to her friendship. She even had me as her bridesmaid but we did not have true friendship. It was not until my children were out of the house, I no longer worked, and I found God, that true friends were given to me. We are not at all the same with earthly ways. Spiritually, we are closer than anyone can be, even siblings. Just live one day at a time and if you just dedicate yourself to serving God and putting him First, your life will blossom and you will be given true friends. Forgive me for preaching. This in not preaching, this is FACT.
Reply:so,now u know that she is not ur true friend..


find a person who has opposite attitude that u've mentioned...


true friends always in ur side either sad or happy condition....


gud luck...
Reply:well girl i been through that so many times and i kno how u feel. well this is how u find a true friend, u already kno that this girl is straight up fake so tell her if u ain't gone be real with me then we're not real friends and to find a friend be open to people and find people who share things in common with u. and then make sure when u guys hang out that its were everyone can c, not 2 show off but 2 b sure that they're a true friend. p.s a true friend will tell u what happened the day before the night before the hour before and will always have ur back.
Reply:Real/True/Best Friends DONT come mail order. Be yourself dont try to change for the person or group your with.. be you and trust me your true friends will stick by you.
Reply:ok your "one" friend is 2 faced and you know they're true if they tell you anything anywhere if they will do anything for you to succeed if they act total losers in public with you no matter where you are they will say hi back or if they care i know i have true friends they care about me dearly i know when I'm sick they help me get better for example my friend Anissa when i was sick with strep throat she sent me a card to make me feel better and i did
Reply:Real friend aren't just there when the weather good. They are they forever.





I don't remember where I read it, but It stand true: To find out who your real friends are just wait until things get rough.





As for people ignoring you: That's not friendship. A friend is mutally yours no matter what the surroundings.





Sorry, hun, but i think these people are using you.





Just trust your gut. Like romances, good frienshipd blossom over time. If someone seems too good to be true, they prolly are.
Reply:is sounds like ur friend r ashame of being ur friend lol. maybe is becuz when they r'nt w/ their other friend they just want to talk to u. is like they talk to other friends about other things but to u he/she is talking about a whole lot of different things