Saturday, November 19, 2011

How to find new friends?

I have a friend who lives hours away from me, as does most of her friends, so basically she doesnt have any close female friends near her that she can see regularly.


Due to this she tends to spend all of her time with her bf, and she likes that but he has expressed interested in spending a little more time apart and said she should get more female friends to hang out with.


She asked my opinion on how to meet girls, as i dont have much luck in that department either i am seeking other advice.


She doesnt really like bars and doesnt have any interests at the moment, and hell from my experience girls tend to not like other girls anyway.

How to find new friends?
For one, she could post an ad on craigslist, stating the kind of things she would like to do:





work out buddy, ride bikes together, learn to knit (start a knitting group), maybe start a book club, a shopping buddy, etc.





There might already be a similar posting on craigslist, so she could look through the postings in the 'platonic' section or in the community events section.





Another piece of advice is to look at your local craft stores, book stores, sporting equipment stores,etc. for groups that already meet which she could join.





Taking a class at the local community college, either a regular class or an adult education class (art, cooking, ballet, any of her interests) would definitely introduce you guys to a new group of people.





Have a yard sale, and invite your closest neighbors to participate in a Neighborhood Yard Sale. This will help to introduce yourselves to people that live around you and you might meet someone who could be a friend. For that matter, you could do any community thing - like start a neighborhood watch program, a neighborhood recycling program, etc.
Reply:Neither one of you will EVER meet other girls with that attitude that girls tend to not like other girls anyway. It sound s to me like the problem lies with YOU.
Reply:come one it is not so hard to have friend she should be normal and maybe seeing some girls in schools and try to be herself and she will be so relax.

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