They totally never want to hang out even though I ask them too. They barely ever call me. They always talk about me behind my back...and sometimes right in front of me. They insult me a lot and they always brag about hanging out with all of their other friends. I know what you're thinking..."What did you do to them?" My honest answer-nothing. I've been trying to be real nice to them and be their friend, but then they think that they can do whatever they want because I'm a suck-up. Plus they think the world revolves around them. I'm stuck! I know I should get new friends...but it's not that easy. There's cheerleaders, I'm not one, there's emo people, I'm not. I don't fit in anywhere else. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!
My "friends" are being brats, how do I find new ones???
You have analyzed your own situation quite well. Your friends suck! It is better to be alone than having them as friends. One reason I say that, is when you hang out with them or try to, others watching you think you are like them, and maybe staying away from you because of that.. So, stay alone for a while. Become very sharp. Open your eyes and ears and notice things around you. You will notice someone or someones who you like very much or admire for their characteristics. Seek people who are like you or like the kind of person you want to be.
Now, the next part can be hard or tricky. Become noticed by the way you are or by the kindness and understanding you display to others. And become really good at something. People will become drawn to you.
The last part is very easy. Don't try to get a friend. Just follow numbers one and two above the moment will come when you will have just the right ones around you. How will you know and how will you be noticed? And this is the easy part; you just will.
Reply:Same thing happened to me.It makes you regret becoming friends with them. I call them "frenemies" . I don't really fit in either...i'm friends with certain people in different groups. I know its not easy but talk to more people in one group that don't "fit in "either( you're not the only one in a whole school) and just have fun and be yourself. After I left those girls I feel stress- free now
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Reply:yea they're definetely not your friends..friends are people you can count on and they'll always be there for you..i know its hard to make friends either your too shy or maybe you feel as if you dont fit in...but just know that your prob. not the only one having this problem...just find someone..it doesnt matter if theyre popular or unpopular cause that doesnt really matter..but just find someone you can get along with and someone whod be there for you no matter what..im soo thankful to have my friends..but it was hard to finally know who my true friends are..but once you do find them you can never forget about them...just know that..
i hoped i helped..plus hey ill be your friend..if you want to talk ill be here! =]
Reply:http://www.friends.com
Reply:just walk up to someone that you want to be friends with. make sure you always have extra friends though just in case they turn out to be jerks!
Reply:well....I'll be your new friend ...if you want...lol...ok
Reply:idk go hang out with the nerds im pretty sure they can be fun
Reply:join together and look at yourselfs;)
Reply:either ride it out, go hang with the 'unpopular kids', or switch schools. or maybe you could join a class like karate or dance or something and make friends outside of school.
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