Where do you find true friends?

i have a good amount of friends and im a friendly and open minded to everyone. but sometimes i feel down and i want to express myself or i need opinions but my friends arnt the ones i feel comfortable talking to. i want a person, any person guy or girl who i could have a shoulder to lean on, basically a best friend. i feel i would do anything for my friends but not if there not gonna do the same back. im pretty much different than most of my friends, we have a lot of fun but i just cant fully trust them.

Where do you find true friends?
Aw...I know what you mean! It's not easy to find decent people you can trust when you're young. Chances are, the people you consider your "friends" will not be by your side in 10 years or even just a few years time. You can never truly be sure about people, and it's not your fault, it's just the way things are. People are all different and have different priorities, some are selfish and only look out for their best interests, these people are not worth your time, BELIEVE me!





You only need friends in your life that prove they want you in theirs. Be around great people. Your friends reflect who you are...Don't panic too much, if you feel like you don't have any real friends now, it's not the end of the world. Give it time. If you're still in highschool you still have PLENTY of time during college and working to meet different people and find good, loyal, trusty friends! Be true to yourself, I think that's the number one thing.
Reply:Trust is a very hard thing to get for other people. Best friends are just as difficult to find as trust is in others. Basically, to have a best friend, you have to be able to be one yourself. And if you can be one yourself then your apt to find someone else that would also feel the same way and be a best friend back. They say to have 5 real true friends at the end of your lifetime is very rare. but, it does happen. Sometimes you have to take risks to find those you can trust and it may be in someone you least expect to find it in.
Reply:You can't look for them; you can't put out an ad for lifelong friends. You have to meet people and speak with them and determine on an individual basis who is worth your trust. I don't know how old you are, but it is said that people form many lasting relationships in college and in the years immediately following.
Reply:By what your saying, I'd say that you definitely need to find a few new friends (you dont have to eliminate the old ones), maybe find someone with similar interests who you don't have to be around all the time, someone who sits next to you in a few classes maybe, maybe a cousin


Someone you can just generally bond with
Reply:Relationships must be cultivated and nurtured, like a beautiful garden. Clearly you have more depth than your "friends". As you go through life, you'll meet many interesting people. Keep your mind open to all the beauty contained therein.
Reply:Well you'll find a girl that you really click with sooner or later.


You have to build that trust its normal don't worry.


I don't trust many people either - matter of fact don't talk to my so called "friends" about anything personal.


Friends have come and go out of my life - and I am already use to it.
Reply:If you ever want to discuss things, can always talk to me. I'm generally good at that I think, listening to people and such. Just send me an email or something if you feel the need and we can talk about whatever is on your mind.





Better yet if you got messenger:


aim: ajkleist23


yahoo: adamjk2005
Reply:you can't find a best Friend like this easy... and try to talk to your friends and tell them how u feel... but do not use the internet to find freinds... believe me in the hard bad moments you will know who is your freind and who is not...
Reply:I'm not sure how old you are but anyone is lucky to have even one "best" friend, who they can talk to and trust with anything. When you do find them cherish them and be the same kind of friend to them that they are to you
Reply:friends are very hard 2 find (true ones), the're like a diamonds........if u have a hobby or something or u play a sport maybe u can find true friends there co'z maybe you can relate to them.........or if you want someone to listen to you......i can
Reply:"where do you find true friends? "





Anywhere, a bus station, the grocery store, a parade, Disneyland, it doesn't matter. What matters is finding someone YOU click with, that's it!
Reply:the true friends you can know him when you have no good times or when you have a big problem.
Reply:You just need to look around. And see from them being there for you through thick and thin. Like a true friendship is always does.
Reply:You can find friends at the funeral home because they're dying to please you. Sorry I couldn't resist.
Reply:real friends are everywhere!the fact is to have good chemistry with a friend!
Reply:Be more socialable, become friends with your friends friends, you will soon find a true friend. Don't worry
Reply:They will show up towards the last part of your life.....the ones who last..
Reply:True Friends are found through life experiences and time.
Reply:im had two mates for 20 years,
Reply:Myspace


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Reply:Well, first thing's first. You can't just go out and find a good friend. You have to build relationships with others around you first. You have to understand that not everyone is perfect and some people aren't very good at comforting. If you give people time and really grow close to them, then you'll feel the comfort you're looking for.





Now that that's said, I have some tricks in sorting through a crowd of people and picking out someone with a good heart; not that hard to find in people these days, especially the young.





I'm always kind of the new kid in school, so the ones that come up to me first and introduce themselves are going to be the better ones to hang around with until you understand the status quo and who does what.





If you're not put in that position it can be harder. You have to listen to yourself; if you meet a person and you feel inclined to spend more time with him or her then do it. Don't doubt yourself because he or she isn't the prettiest thing around or even the nicest. Anyone can break a shell, they just need patience, time, and they need to truly care about this person.





If you want to look for someone that's going to share some hobbies that you have, sign up for some classes down at your local community center or join clubs at school. Do something different with your time and you'll meet different people.





There are millions and millions and trillions different people out there and at LEAST one of them should be able to be there for you if you give them the chance.





Good Luck!